What's your culture? If it's Irish, you'll only be able to create Brittania, and not Francia (requires Frankish/Occitan/Burgundian culture, IIRC).
I stopped doing reload games lately and play no-reload games, even though the game loves to screw with you in those - I had one as count of Caithness: "Oh, you fabricated a claim on duchy of Moray and are kicking Scotland's ass at 60% war success? Here, have your count die 'naturally' at age of 42!" "Oh, your successor is kicking Scotland's ass again? Here, have him get imprisoned in random battle and lose! And what are you saying? That he's heir to Kingdom of Norway? He can't inherit from prison now, can he, eh? Mwahahaha!" So my count's brother inherited Norway, I was his heir, I plotted assassination, plot at 180% and my count does what? Of course, he randomly becomes infirm at age of 37 and dies. Because, screw the counts of Caithness....
I tell you, the game is sometimes deliberately evil.
But I had two highly fun no-reload games lately, the current one (count of Nantes) and the one before as count of Abauj.
The Abauj game:
The current Nantes game:
And the proof of the progressive nature of my Empire of Britannia - female bishops