Originally posted by MrPresident
Surely by that thought process you should also teach your son how to take drugs properly, how to drive a car, how to operate heavy machinery, how to smoke tobacco, the proper way to drink alcohol, how to act with a stripper etc....
I think that teaching your son how to fire a gun is not the smartest idea. Maybe you should think about teaching how that guns kill and that is their own purpose. If there were no guns then kids wouldn't be able to kill themselves by accident. I live in a country where most guns are illegal and I have never in my entire life hear of any person accidentally shooting themselves, kid or otherwise. By the way I have also never had to trust someone whether a gun is loaded or not but if they were pointing it at him I probably wouldn't be inclined to do so.
I appreciate that you live in a country where guns are illegal and accidental shootings don't happen. I also appreciate that you think America should be that way. However it is not. Accidental shootings do happen, and they tend to happen with kids too. That may bolster your arguement for making them illegal, and that is fine, but VoodooAce must raise his son considering the objective reality of his world, not a vision of how it should be. That reality includes neighbor children whose parents may have guns. Those parents may not be as rational and intelligent about guns as he may wish them to be, and their children may have access to the guns. Kids play, and they play with forbidden fruit. Better to know what it can do, and the proper way of dealing with it instead of having to deal with the situation with ignorance.
As to your first point, I consider this ludicrous. The analogy is that if you don't want your child to do drugs, you educate him or her about them. The effects on the body, the effects on the mind. The dangers, what can go wrong, etc. You do not just repeat, " Drugs are bad, don't do drugs." Most people require a bit more than that when making an informed decision.
Continuing on, yeah, I should teach my child how to drive a car when the time comes. I think it will make him or her safer than simply saying, "well, your sixteen, you can drive now, but keep in mind, cars can be dangerous."
I can also do better than telling my child that alcohol is bad. Especially when he or she will grow up seeing me knocking back a Guiness or three now and again. The child will drink, and while I am not going to teach him how, avoiding that subject until the kid wraps the family car around a tree doesn't strike me as the best way either.
In short, I think raising a child with the information and the capacity to make a rational decision is better than simply creating an automaton that that I have filled with catch phrases such as "Guns are evil. Just Say No. Don't drive drunk. Speed kills. Smoking is stupid. etc." These are valid expressions, but a thinking person needs information and knowledge to truely accept them as good common sense.
Also, teaching proper gun safety includes teaching that guns kill. It does not even have to include shooting, but I think that that can help illustrate the point. People in the US have a good chance of encountering guns in their lifetime. If they do, they can either do so with knowledge gained from a responsible source like a gun safety class, or from Gansta rap and Hollywood. I guess I just figure that the preference should be obvious.