Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
well, I suppose its time...
How can I know if a girl likes me?
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Thats the spirit. What most people around here should realise is that whining in a message board isn't going to help them much. (please dont take it too personel, its just what I feel when I see these kind of discussions)
Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
its ok, Actually I was planning to take the initative back... tommorow. I just figured Id ask here for what people thought.
Women have a tendency not to know their minds. In many cases all you have to do is show an interest in them and bingo, they will be interested in you.
If I had only known that when I was young.
Rule: There is a rock bottom percentage of women that will have sex with you just for the asking. I don't know what that percentage is, but if you ask them all, you won't have time to worry about the math.
If I had only known that when I was young.
Rule: There is a rock bottom percentage of women that will have sex with you just for the asking. I don't know what that percentage is, but if you ask them all, you won't have time to worry about the math.
Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
Im not lookng for sex, im looking for a freind.
Oruc
Reactionary
man that sounds sad
Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
why?
Oruc
Reactionary
you sound like one of those lonely kids with no friends ( exclude the part about sex then it seems funny)
Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
thats how I used to be, now im kind of become complete. I dont need others anymore. When I do need to talk to people, I go here 
Oruc
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so why u looking for a friend 
Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
Its a long story... Lets just say my transition from lonely 'kid' to individual superpower could not have come had certain events involving this girl had not happened.
Oruc
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EDIT: on second thought i'll edit that out
Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
were you going to write something... offensive by chance?
Oruc
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i was just asking if she had big uns
Saga of Gemini
Golden Saint Overlord
Originally posted by thestonesfan
What he said. That's generally a great sign.
Seriously, if she likes you and wants to get her hooks in you, there isn't much you can do about it. So I wouldn't worry.
High school is a whole different ballgame. The rules that make sense don't really apply. Girls don't go for the guys that will be the best for them - just the guys that make them look the best. And those guys are usually jerks obsessed with their self-image. So in order to do well in high school if you are a decent, virtuous person, you have to compromise yourself, which no one should ever do. It's probably smart to just wait it out.
Then im screwed....... Im what you would call a good boy......
About High school girls, I guess you are rigth, maybe I should wait, since they all seem to be extremly shallow..... They all seem to "hook up" with the stupidest, most moronic, clowny guys you can imagine, but most or all times they look like models.
One thing I also dont understand about this school girls, is how they make a picture of theire perfect man and wait for him, I mean if you are not rigth in the tiniest part they dont like you. Like for Example, a friend...well a classmate, firmly believs that she is going to marry to Chester Benington ( the yelling guy from Linkin Park ), and by my mother she believes it, she rejects everyone with that exucuse. I liked her until I found out she is not capable of rational thinking...
Can anyone explaine why do girls hook up with this kind of guys?? I had a complex about my self, until I started asking grown women, if I was a bad catch in anyway, the only bad thing they mentioned, is that I sometimes brag to much, but that it wasent a big deal. This women, are political family and friends of the family ( BTW I dont think I have a chance with them, just in case anyone was going to suggest I ask them out) so I guess theire opinions arent as biased, as if I asked my mom for example.
Sarevok
Civ3 Scenario Creator
thats unfortunate...
emu, what do you mean?
emu, what do you mean?
IMO....The majority of high school girls (and guys for that matter) don't bother much with "love", or even "like" for that matter, its more of a "image" thing. I remember friends of mine who liked the personality of a person but because he didn't 'look a certain way they refused to go out with him. For fear of what other would think. It's all image! Looking back now I can see how "shallow" everyone was, if you didn't look a certain way you didn't have many friends and had less of a chance having a "boyfriend/girlfriend". One friend of mine really liked this one guy, she "loved talking with him, and always had a good time with him" but (and yes, she told me this) "I can't go out with him, he's not that good looking, what would everyone think if I went out with him, I think I'd be better off just keeping him as a friend and nothing more." 5 years after we all graduated (and being nothing more than "friends") these two were married and have been since. But they only started dating after the "image thing" wasn't as profound in their "circle" of friends.
Saga of Gemini
Golden Saint Overlord
Yeah the funny thing is that they think they are in love. Ive kinda been the only that sees the reality, for example, my best friend, said he was in love of a girl, well I told him that he wasent, then a bunch of guys and girls started arguing with me, I patintly told them that at this age, its extremly hard to be actually in-love, and I explained that they only "liked" this girl or boy, Oh the pandemonium I started, ppl started calling me black heart, dead in side, incaple of love, just because I said that Ive never fallen in love, they started telling me that I was a liar, and stuff... well to end the story here, my friend that was so much in love and defended his love as if I was some kind of enemy tryng to kill him, dosent even see the girl in the breaks anymore, or even remembers her name ( only after about 2 minutes thinking). Well I guess I should wait, it seems to be the most logical thing to do. Thanx ppl
Please don't get me wrong, you shouldn't stop "dating" all together. I don't see anything wrong with "dating" I just think that a lot of high school kids tend to "tie themselves down" with just one person and then only for the "wrong" reasons. If you truely do like this person then it can not hurt to ask her out. There is nothing wrong with dating, in fact that is the only way your going to find out if you really like that person.
I remember "dating", "going steady" whatever, with the same guy for more than a year. My parents, and some of my friends, kept telling me I needed to "date others" as well but I wouldn't listen. He was one of those "model" types, and so we "fit in" with the "right look" thing. Needless to say after a year + of "being in love" we broke up because, of all reasons, I talked to another guy too much, and my boyfriend was getting a bit too "mad" with the whole situation <sigh> I had been friends with this guy for like 5 years, and my boyfriend knew of him before we even started "going out", but oh well, probably better off that we did "break up".... Young love is definitely blind (to just about everything but "looks" anyway)
I remember "dating", "going steady" whatever, with the same guy for more than a year. My parents, and some of my friends, kept telling me I needed to "date others" as well but I wouldn't listen. He was one of those "model" types, and so we "fit in" with the "right look" thing. Needless to say after a year + of "being in love" we broke up because, of all reasons, I talked to another guy too much, and my boyfriend was getting a bit too "mad" with the whole situation <sigh> I had been friends with this guy for like 5 years, and my boyfriend knew of him before we even started "going out", but oh well, probably better off that we did "break up".... Young love is definitely blind (to just about everything but "looks" anyway)
Bose
Antipodean
Unfortunately my friend, there is no way of knowing short of putting your neck on the line.
They're a strange species that, rather than actually let you know where you stand, would rather watch you grapple with the unknown and chase.
Word to the wise... DO NOT TRY TO BE HER FRIEND. If you do this, she will look at you like a little brother. As soon as you go the 'friend' angle, you lose. Males and females cannot be 'friends'.
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