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The Yankee said:We keep calling the President the President or address him as "Mister President." Is that rude and arrogant also?
It's not rude or arrogant for *us* to do it. It *IS* arrogant for him to *INSIST* on it. What is SUPREMELY arrogant by the way are all those doctors who introduce themselves as "Dr so and so"
That's why in certain oriental languages which have honorifics, no one applies an honorific to themselves -- they are only applied to others. The very idea that in our Western culture self-application of honorifics is considered acceptable is just mind boggling ... I wonder if it was always this way (say 200 years ago or 400 years ago) or if it was some arrogant doctors who decided that this is the way it should be.
Titles are titles and it is perfectly in one's right to say he or she would like to be addressed as "Doctor" if they are, indeed, one.
You are thinking of it in terms of "rights" as opposed to whether it is really a good thing to do. I have the "right" to eat 6000 calories a day and become overweight and obese -- that doesn't make it a good thing for me to do.