plarq
Crazy forever
searched. Cannot find anything about me.
Don't worry, other people can post those pics of you.
Nothing much of value was lost then.
Don't get me wrong, I still have plenty of good friends that are very forgetful. Even when I used to see them every day or so at the university, they'd still forget to invite me to stuff. They never phone or text about party plans. They just slap on a Facebook event, invite a bunch of people, and say "invite anyone I missed" (sometimes with "if you see this and were supposed to be invited, you are, I just forgot"). I was upset at their forgetfulness once that I nearly stopped being friends with them at one point, until I realized that that's who they are, and it's not personal directed at me specifically.
We're talking about the bigger kind of parties here, where there's gonna be dimmed lighting, music, cute girls. Maybe find a girl and make out with her for the night, maybe get laid. I'm not too big into those parties, but sometimes they are very nice to go to. And nothing's more frustrating (especially to me) than not getting invited to one of those explicitly, because my manners forbid me from coming by to a party even if I know these guys are close enough that they wouldn't mind and it's just because they forgot me (if I ever become aware of this party, that is).
So, although not utilizing social media may seem like you're not missing out, and that there's no difference... the difference is in the things you don't notice.
If you want to be invited to 80% less parties, be aware of 50% less of what's going on socially, and be much less socially connected to your friends so as to have a social life, delete your account on Facebook.
It's not necessarily a direct "social sanction". It's just an indirect effect. "I'm going to invite all my friends on Facebook now" - completely forgets you. Sure, close friends will remember you regardless... but the issue remains regardless.
Well you can untag yourself from photos where you're drunk and stuff.
Yeah, that's really annoying =/ Typing my real name into Google still shows my twitter account, even though (a) my real name is no longer on my twitter profile, and (b) my tweets are protected. I wish I could delete my own content from Google's cache.That's the problem: Once tagged by the search engines, it takes quite a lot of time for a search engine to disassociate you from these pictures you've untagged your name from.
If you troll on the webz and are stupid enough to use your real name, I wouldn't hire you because you're stupid.
Given the ubiquity of social networking, it's unlikely that employers would not take advantage of a data resource that they might think will work in their favor. That's why I say, be careful what you say online.
So long as you're not saying things that would threaten or hurt your employer in someway they probably would just ignore most of it. The most common things you see on FB are photos(don't post nude or suggestive pics). Most of what would get you fired is if you explicitly threatening the business or say something that would makes you look really bad.
It's kind of ridiculous that an employer doesn't expect you to be nude outside of work, or they expect you not to have sex or fun outside of work. I'm almost inclined to agree with the OP.
hint: humans were born nude, it's our natural state. Humans were also born with a sex drive. It's ridiculous employers expect us to have no sex drive.
Don't worry, other people can post those pics of you.
And you don't even have to have an account for them to be able to do that.![]()
Well you can untag yourself from photos where you're drunk and stuff.
Good point. I guess at some point, employers will be more discriminating in what they discriminate about.What happens when cheap image recognition software becomes available.