No, I have seen you have here on the forum different people disagreeing with you, on different reasonings. And those people do not even agree with each other on many other issues. No one is ganging up on you.
Perhaps if you stuck more to discussing the ideas, instead of people here, we would not have the threads so derailed this often?
How can they be citizens of a state that is nor recognized by the state that actually occupies the territory? It just doesn't work, is not working. It is not a mere formality that is missing, it's the actual state. Creating that state was never easy, there are a big number of reasons why it remains a distant possibility.
You know (speaking as necessarily rather ignorant foreign observer) the best way of defusing this situation seems to me to be acknowledging a partial right of return, of a limited number of people to land that was not reused, get those to have a stake on keeping that deal on. Then create the separate state with the remained of the refugees resettled there, subsidize it as needed. If living conditions improve those also have a stake on keeping the peace. That's the best Israel can do to lower the risks of the two-sate solution. But I don't think it's possible, politically, now.
Trying a two-state solution with excess population the the occupied territories, with refugees still clamoring for the right to return to their old land inside Israel, creates an excessively unstable situation within an independent Palestine. The whole right of return thing souled be sorted out before.
The bad portion of this is that those who were displaced and still live as refugees in Lebanon, Syria, and Jordan and pretty much screwed in that scenario. It does not seem just but it seems to be the possible. Politics being the art of the possible and all that...