Well then if we back our scope back all this way then it’s really no use to have this conversation because then everything in the world is deterministic, which is valueless regardless of how philosophically true it is. The point is that gender identity, like birth sex, race, ability, and class, is not something that one has much control over, and is thus in my value set off-limits to reasonable prejudice. Meanwhile conservatism is a fairly conscious choice that takes significant action to maintain. Nobody is born conservative; plenty of people are born with gender identities incompatible with the one forced on them by birth sex.
So ultimately it’s clear why saying “I dislike black people, trans people, gay people, and women on the grounds of those social identities” is pretty thoroughly more despicable than saying “I dislike conservatives on the grounds of their political self-identification”, or indeed “I dislike communists on the grounds of their political self-identification”.
I don't think you have established why gender identity is basically biological, like sex or race. Gender identity seems to be quite fluid, and people have often changed their ideas about what their gender identity is over time, and I don't see why they shouldn't be able to. That seems to suggest it isn't strictly predetermined. I mean, don't you think it is oppressive to tell people they are born a certain way and there is nothing they can do about it?
There is a video with Jordan Peterson and someone by the name of Nicholas Matte, a lecturer for Trans-gender Studies at the University of Toronto. He straight up said there is no biological basis for sex. I'm not sure if you endorse that view, but being told that gender identity is biologically predetermined, and also that there is no basic biological basis for sex, is quite funny.
First, pretend IQ is a meaningful measure of anything (it isn’t really, but for analogical purposes.) Imagine if society constructed an IQ binary. Everyone has either an IQ of 2 or 250. Obviously this is useless because intelligence exists on a huge spectrum, but this is a good analogy for gender identity and the gender binary.
We use some external, essentially unrelated but somewhat correlated feature to determine from birth whether a person belongs to Binary A or Binary B. Let’s say cranial circumference within some threshold of literal externally observed . For their entire life this Binary, and their place in this binary, is enforced heavily.
Little Jimmy is born a genius. Actual IQ 350. However, because he was born with a small head for unrelated reasons, he is now placed in the other binary, and is treated his whole life like he has an IQ of 2. This affects everything— the clothes he gets to wear, where he is expected to shop, what careers he finds opportunities in. Gradually, this builds up into a massive dysphoria. He adopts the binary identity B.
Now it’s true that in an ideal world jimmy would be able to express his identity exactly how it was, at 350. Indeed, this IQ binary is harmful even to people who come very close to the binaries in their actual measurements. However, his dysphoria, and the contrast between the binary identity he was raised into and what is presented as the only alternative, which he comes much closer to identifying with, has pushed him into a position where he must adopt this binary identity.
Furthermore, while it’s true that environmental factors definitely changed his IQ at least a few points, maybe even 10 or 20, it’s unlikely they were able to affect him anywhere near enough to disturb which binary he identified with.
Now imagine all the same but for gender identity. Gender identity as a spectrum is much more complex than IQ, of course, but this analogy should hopefully help you to understand the function of the binary and its effect on the personal interpretation of gender identity.
I think IQ is probably highly malleable by environmental factors. But even if I'm wrong about that, in general I just don't agree with this analogy because I think gender identity is ill defined, often in an explicit self-contradictory way. I don't see why I should think gender identity isn't this thing that is planted inside of you at birth. Even if I think it is something like your preference for chocolate ice cream, I see no reason to think that preference wasn't shaped in partly, or even largely, by your environment.
Subconsciously for some, overtly for others.
I don't think you understand conservatives very well.
You said maybe conservatives are just wired to be conservative, maybe you're right. Reminds me of research suggesting religion is hard wired. I think there's a world of evidence trans is hard wired, just like every other sexual classification. People dont wake up one day and decide who turns them on, or how to view themselves. Well, they do in one way - 'sexual awakening' is realized at some point when we're youngsters, when nature has predetermined our introduction to the world of sexuality. Nobody chooses that.
I love chocolate ice cream. I love juicy rib eyes. This attachment I have is the product of god only knows how many eons of evolution. I didn't choose to like these foods, but I did choose to eliminate them from my diet because they aggravate my reflux.
Well, I said there are a lot of environmental factors that lead to someone being conservative, which isn't really the same as saying you are hard-wired. People don't wake up one day and decide to be conservative, either. My point is the lines people try to draw around things that are choices, and thing that are not, tend to be very ill formed. People try to say some things are a choice using one line of argument. And then, using a completely contradictory line of argument, they say other things are not a choice.
Yes, you didn't choose to like juicy rib eyes, but the reason you like them so much is almost certainly at least partly a product of your environment, not just 'hard-wired'. Most people in Zimbabwe absolutely love to eat a Mopane Worms, it's high in fat and other nutrients. I have no doubt if I grew up there, I would like them too. But, being how my environment was, I can hardly stand to even watch someone eat one, seeing the guts pop out literally makes me want to throw up.
Also, you could probably intentionally or unintentionally train yourself to actually not like the taste of rib eyes. You could become a vegan, and over time, you may grow to be disgusted at the sight and smell of the blood. This has happened to many people.