I honestly can't say if Jay-z is right or not. The family structure is what I'm interested in.
Well, what
is the family structure of black America? What forces shape it? How is it changed over time?
I understand that when you say "black family structure" you mean "single mothers", but whether or not that's typical, it's not actually a structure, it's a characteristic. If there's anything which distinguishes black family structures from white family structures, it's multi-generationality and extensiveness, the greater likelihood of having non-immediate family members living alongside each other and participating in child rearing. This is also common among Hispanic, Asian and Native families. It was historically common among white families, especially white ethnics. That, you'll recall, was the point I originally made re: Peterson's Twelve Dumb Commandments, and the reason it threatens weirdos like Peterson is that it presents a genuine alternative to the isolated bourgeois nuclear family.
Of course it's political. They're making a political statement, and doing so in a way easily interpretable as dismissing the entirety of American history and culture as immoral. How does that translate to 'they don't like darkies?'
Obviously it's a political statement. I'm not saying that it isn't, or that it is recognised as such. What I'm suggesting is, this itself
is the source of the outrage. The sort of patriotic ritual represented by the flag-and-singalong are assumed to be apolitical, assumed to assert generally American virtues which are beyond dispute. Kaepernick's protest isn't distressing simply because they disagree with the politics it espouses, but because it
is explicitly political, because it recasts the whole ritual as a political one- which, of course, it always was. If the same point had been in a context that was recongised as political, such as a BLM protest, the anti-Kaepernick crowd may disagreed with him, even vehemently, but he wouldn't have risked the same sort of bile, because he was not violating a sacred myth that the rituals of nationalism are somehow apolitical. It would have been a passing item on the sports blogs, "up and coming quarterback attends protest", and NFL-ignorants like you and me would still think that "Kaepernick" refers to a style of Lithuanian pickled gherkin.
The fact that his protest consisted of nothing more than an act of passive refusal- that his outrage consisted of literally
keeping his head down- only serves to hammer home this point. Kaepernick didn't need to actually say anything disrespectful to "dismiss the entirety of American history and culture as immoral". All he had was fail to practice the expected affirm of American nationalism that was expected of him as a football player, and the reactionary right would fill in the blanks. Anything less than unquestioning compliance was tantamount to treason.
Rubbing your nuts up and down the flag is fine, though, free country and all that.