Kiss on First Date?

[truckingpete]

So, just seeing what people would do.

Okay, you just got done with a date (first date) with whoever you like. It's time to go home and you drop that person off at their house.

Would you give that person a kiss goodbye? I know it depends on what kind of kiss. So how bought a peck on the cheek or on the lips, that's it, nothing else.

What would you do?

 

[Cheezy the Wiz]

well a hardly ever make the first move, so no i wouldnt

 

[Turner]

Your age or my age? Your age, probably a kiss on the cheek. My age, definately a kiss good night.

 

[Ramius75]

Probably too scare to even touch the girl... -_-:

 

[downtown]

I usually kiss on the first date...whether that be cheek or lips depends on how well that date went

 

[skadistic]

Kiss? Why limit your self? Shoot for the moon, go all the way!!!

It realy depends on the girl, how long have you known her, is she a friend, how did the date go, how comfertable are you swaping spit, and all that other stuff.

Sometimes a passionate but simple kiss on the lips can leave a girl aw struck.

 

[adog]

Go for it!

 

[CoolioVonHoolio]

yeah it depends what the date was. comedy movies suck to kiss in but romance/horror are good to take a date to. during you can cuddle up and maybe more. also always ask for the first kiss. its not wimpy or lame its just polite. you dont know if they will reject you but after the first one you know they are comfortable enough and you can just go in for it.

 

[Shadylookin]

I always go for at least a kiss w/ tongue. Anything less and you might as well have went out with your sister of course I didn't start dating until i was 16 so if you're like 12 or something you might have to settle for less.

 

[downtown]

I've never felt comfortable with anything other than a close mouthed kiss on the first date. Anything else just seemed too intimate for sometbody whom I didnt know all that well. All that comes later.

As for sex on the first date, c'mon...where's the fun in that? Now what are you going to do for your second date? So much for the thrill of the chase

 

[Godwynn]

Meh, depends on how the date went.

 

[Shadylookin]

I've never felt comfortable with anything other than a close mouthed kiss on the first date. Anything else just seemed too intimate for sometbody whom I didnt know all that well. All that comes later.

it's just spit

As for sex on the first date, c'mon...where's the fun in that? Now what are you going to do for your second date? So much for the thrill of the chase

I wouldn't be so worried about losing the chase as i would about STDs. if someone is willing to do it with you after knowing you 3 hours who's to say about how many other partners he/she's had.

 

[CaptainF]

sure why not.

 

[Cuivienen]

To be frank, I'd be rather offended if a guy tried to kiss me on the cheek after the first date. Better not to try at all (which is fine).

To me, it doesn't matter, though it does say something about his personality either way. I'm just not sure which implication I'd prefer.

 

[CaptainF]

To be frank, I'd be rather offended if a guy tried to kiss me on the cheek after the first date. Better not to try at all (which is fine).

To me, it doesn't matter, though it does say something about his personality either way. I'm just not sure which implication I'd prefer.

Some men go for the gold, where as others finish last.

 

[Gr3yL3gion]

What? No hot coffee?

 

[boarder]

I would have thought a kiss would be just the begginning

 

[kingjoshi]

It depends upon a lot of things, but most importantly, your feeling of how the girl thinks. But failing that, then what you feel.

I haven't been on many dates, much less first dates (only three!). First time, we made out in her car. My first kiss. Felt a lot of pressure and scared. Worked out well since we went together for two years.

Second "date" wasn't a date. An acquintance/friend was in the computer lab with me at night in the summer. I had the keys to the building and the lab. I was relaxing playing Virtual Pool. I asked her to join (I was teaching her to play pool and I thought this would aid her game). Of course as she sat, I had to put my arms around her and my hand on hers to show her how to use the mouse for the game. And my head just conveniently happened to rest on her shoulders. To describe it as a kiss does the experience injustice. What a wonderful night.

But how was I to know those two girls already had crushes on me as I fell for them? Two girls I've made out with on the first date, were long term relationships. The third date ended in a hug and it didn't go past the second date. Coincidence?

Be yourself. Do what you feel. But take into considerations how you think they would feel. Don't be rude about it just for a kiss. You could lose a special girl.

 

[general_kill]

Talking with girls I've been on dates with, a kiss is really expected on a first date. If you didn't screw it up, then go for it. Don't be too shy.

 

[Rhymes]

I always go for the big show on the first date. thats what happened with my current girlfirend and it's gonna be 1 year on the 24th!!