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Have either of those points changed appreciably in the last few millenia?
Yes. They've changed appreciably in the past two centuries, with the advent of medicine.
The thing is, when infant mortality rates were through the roof, people just not cared much about kids. Only after a kid was grown-up enough to prove that he was able to survive infancy did his parents, and society, took note of him or her.
When more than half your kids did before they reach the age of 6, and when you had more than a dozen of then, you simply could not afford to give the same kind of emotional care that we now give our few and healthy kids.
There was an awkward phase in the late 19th century where people still had the old mindset of kids being an expendable resource even though progress made that mindset obsolete and unacceptable, and this is when Dickens and Co. came into play and were able to resonate so much.
Finally, the Romans had a clear-cut (haha, you'll see why in a minute) way of identifying when a boy was an adult: the first shave. Girls obviously do not count, sucks to be a Roman girl
