Ryika
Lazy Wannabe Artista
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Yeah, fights are part of human nature and okay, even over ultimately rather meaningless things.
To stick with the example of a forum where people talk about pets... let's say there is a fight about whether giving your dog low-quality, cheap food is okay. Naturally, some people will say it is, I would assume most people in a pet enthusiast community would probably disagree. That's a reasonable discussion to be had of course, and maybe the conclusion is correct. That's how progress is done after all - people realize what we were doing has negative consequences, and want to change their behavior to something that avoids them. In terms of societal change, that's social justice "done right".
But then what would happen in an "SJW pet forum" is that the people who disagree are ostracized, and their opinions are declared to be invalid, and after they're gone, another poster makes the point that there are quality differences between the foods that were declared to be okay before, and that dogs are probably better off by not eating those other things, and some people disagree, and are removed from the community, and then the next guy comes around and declares that in the foods that are left there are still quality differences and that everybody who feeds their dogs other stuff is immoral. And after two months of doing that, people have arrived at a point where 98% of all dog foods are actually "immoral" because there are better options, even though most of the food that has been declared to not be "dog-friendly" in recent days is probably just fine in reality and likely a much better and balanced diet than what animals would get to eat if they were wild animals having to hunt.
But the reason it continued to spiral downwards is that people were not actually interested in the topic, it's that they wanted to be on the side that is uber-progressive, because it made them feel good. The fight is what they're in for. That, and the fact that everybody knew from previous "debates" that the people who disagreed were thrown out of the community on one way or another leads people who disagree with the way things are going to stay silent, as they can't expect to get support if they speak out against something, even if they disagree.
That's what I think usually does not happen in well-balanced communities because discourse keeps things in perspective. It's specific to communities that are dominated by people with the "holier than thou"-mindset, because taking a stance against whatever idea is put onto the table is actively discouraged, and dissenting voices are shut down.
To stick with the example of a forum where people talk about pets... let's say there is a fight about whether giving your dog low-quality, cheap food is okay. Naturally, some people will say it is, I would assume most people in a pet enthusiast community would probably disagree. That's a reasonable discussion to be had of course, and maybe the conclusion is correct. That's how progress is done after all - people realize what we were doing has negative consequences, and want to change their behavior to something that avoids them. In terms of societal change, that's social justice "done right".
But then what would happen in an "SJW pet forum" is that the people who disagree are ostracized, and their opinions are declared to be invalid, and after they're gone, another poster makes the point that there are quality differences between the foods that were declared to be okay before, and that dogs are probably better off by not eating those other things, and some people disagree, and are removed from the community, and then the next guy comes around and declares that in the foods that are left there are still quality differences and that everybody who feeds their dogs other stuff is immoral. And after two months of doing that, people have arrived at a point where 98% of all dog foods are actually "immoral" because there are better options, even though most of the food that has been declared to not be "dog-friendly" in recent days is probably just fine in reality and likely a much better and balanced diet than what animals would get to eat if they were wild animals having to hunt.
But the reason it continued to spiral downwards is that people were not actually interested in the topic, it's that they wanted to be on the side that is uber-progressive, because it made them feel good. The fight is what they're in for. That, and the fact that everybody knew from previous "debates" that the people who disagreed were thrown out of the community on one way or another leads people who disagree with the way things are going to stay silent, as they can't expect to get support if they speak out against something, even if they disagree.
That's what I think usually does not happen in well-balanced communities because discourse keeps things in perspective. It's specific to communities that are dominated by people with the "holier than thou"-mindset, because taking a stance against whatever idea is put onto the table is actively discouraged, and dissenting voices are shut down.
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