Saturday night I heard from my sister that her husband wanted to be the one to take her to the psychiatrist tonight instead of me. That may prevent me from being able to explain my concerns to her doctor. My sister sounded really good last time I talked to her though, so I was feeling less worried than before about the possible abuse.
Dad spoke to my sister this morning, and said she sounded worse.
We just got off the phone with my sister's mother-in-law.
She said that after my sister came back from the hospital she has been sleeping about as poorly as she had been before being committed. She got up at 4am this morning and hasn't laid down yet. They have tried to get her to lie down in a dark room with soothing music but she says her mind is too busy and wants to spend her nights on the internet instead.
She said whenever they express concerns to her she will agree with them verbally but completely ignore their advice.
She said she is still concerned that my sister is not responsible enough to take care of herself or her baby without her present, and she did not plan to stay in this state much longer.
She said it might help to put her on a prescription sleep aid, but is concerned that would put all the burden of checking on the baby in the middle of the night on her son who is also the only one with a job and needs to sleep himself. She also commented that the sleep aid would not be good for breastfeeding, but added that my sister has not been producing much milk anyway and doubts it will come back so she assumes the baby should just stay on formula regardless. (The baby had gained a couple pounds and was in good health at her pediatrician appointment this morning.)
My dad suggested my sister might benefit from living here with us again for a while. The mother-in-law said she is not sure what good that would do, as it might mean my dad gets his little girl back but it wouldn't teach her to grow up and be the responsible adult their baby needs. She also said she is sure her son would let my sister stay here for a while but does not think he could be convinced to let her bring the baby here with her.
Her husband was wanting to go straight from their house to the psychiatrist and back this evening, not stopping to see us despite it being less than 2 miles out of his way. His mother said she thinks they should stop by to see us, and that she wishes my sister were mature enough to speak up and tell her husband that she misses us and wants to visit rather than expecting him to read her mind.