Archbob
Ancient CFC Guardian
Mise said:
Yes, but then you wouldn't get the tax benefits and there's really no point in signing the contract for you anyways.
Should adultery be made illegal? (Now with correct poll)
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Yes, but then you wouldn't get the tax benefits and there's really no point in signing the contract for you anyways.
Mise
isle of lucy
Why wouldn't I get tax benefits?Fallen Angel Lord said:
Archbob
Ancient CFC Guardian
The tax benefits are generally there for the reason of marriage and incentive for raising a family. Thats assuming the two people stay together. Alot of the tax deduction come from having dependants.
Anyways I doubt your potential spouse would sign the contract with you anyways when you add in "And I am allowed to sleep around with whomever I want after we are united".
Anyways I doubt your potential spouse would sign the contract with you anyways when you add in "And I am allowed to sleep around with whomever I want after we are united".
Mise
isle of lucy
What if we have kids anyway?Fallen Angel Lord said:
Well that's for me to worry about.
Archbob
Ancient CFC Guardian
Your going on the assumption that when you have kids and you random;y cheat on your spouse that he/she will not take some kind of legal action. Thats too far fetched of an assumption. I haven't met that many married people(in fact none) that will say that. Generally cheating on one side ruins a marriage, especially if you have kids. I don't really know of any women that would willingly let you sleep around with other women once you actually have kids and a family.
Now if you and your wife both agree and consent to your cheating and sign off on it, then your off the hook as far as I'm concerned. It should be legal if both you and your spouse agree to you having sex with other people. But see, this is reality, not fantasyland.
Now if you and your wife both agree and consent to your cheating and sign off on it, then your off the hook as far as I'm concerned. It should be legal if both you and your spouse agree to you having sex with other people. But see, this is reality, not fantasyland.
Mise
isle of lucy
Lots of couples are in that situation, actually, where one of them is cheating and the other doesn't care. It's not some kind of fantasy land where people automagically get divorced if one of them cheats on the other.
Archbob
Ancient CFC Guardian
Well, see if the other one knows and willingly accepts it, then its not really cheating, is consentual.
Cheating implies that you are doing it behind your spouses back. I've known those cases too, eventually it ends in divorce, especially if the two have kids. They may accept that in Hollywood, but for the rest of society, those relationships generally set in divorce.
Cheating implies that you are doing it behind your spouses back. I've known those cases too, eventually it ends in divorce, especially if the two have kids. They may accept that in Hollywood, but for the rest of society, those relationships generally set in divorce.
ironduck
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Fallen Angel Lord said:
I learnt about marital law in law school, thanks very much. And I don't live in the US so the suing for 'severe damages' doesn't apply here whatsoever.
Fallen Angel Lord said:
You don't know the faintest thing about me, so spare me your bullcrap.
Archbob
Ancient CFC Guardian
ironduck said:
Its not bullcrap, you can't say that until its happened to you, I could care less who you are. What you say you would do in a hypothetical situation doesn't mean crap until you've actually had to act in that situation.
Kayak
Partisan
Hey, we should all live in Iran...
http://www.sky.com/skynews/article/0,,70131-13471719,00.html?f=rss
http://www.sky.com/skynews/article/0,,70131-13471719,00.html?f=rss
Homie
Anti-Lefty
That's true, I forgot about that.duck said:
Btw, I am surpised at your stance on this Fallen Angel Lord, given your name (which makes you satan) and your icon
Archbob
Ancient CFC Guardian
ironduck said:
I define people by their actions, not by some comment they made online. You think you would react that way, but I'm not going to take your word for that unless I see you react in that way under those circumstances.
Archbob
Ancient CFC Guardian
Its not a personal insult. But I don't really believe anyone who says "this is what I would do in this hard situation". I don't really give them credit for that statement, until I see them do it in real life. That goes for myself as well.
No one is 100% sure of what they would do in a given situation until they are faced with that situation. So your arguement of what I would do in a given situation holds just as much water as my response.
No one is 100% sure of what they would do in a given situation until they are faced with that situation. So your arguement of what I would do in a given situation holds just as much water as my response.
slip79
Princess
Fallen Angel Lord said:
What if he already has been in that situation... knows now he reacted.... but doesn't want to tell you that???
I think he'd know better than anyone else here.
Homie
Anti-Lefty
He already said in this thread that he doesn't have a wife. So this cannot be the case.slip said:
slip79
Princess
Doesn't mean he hasn't been cheated on... so he may still know how he'd react when he is married.
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