... may I again remind that you were the one who said that "only under collectivist system is society entitled to decide"?
Sounds pretty binary to me.
Of course it is "more complicated". There is a gradient. That is why we have Democracy Index and other similar attempts to measure and quantify it.
But the choice of a citizen to accept his. one. particular. government (whereever it may be on that gradient) as legitimate or not is binary.
You can not say it is both legitimate and not at the same time, depending on its policies and whether you like them or not.
No, I said the statement is only accurate under a collectivist system. "entitlement" doesn't really come into it. Otherwise we accept that, to a varying extent, society doesn't
actually agree. Elected representatives do, and we validate the strength of the consensus through things like the Democracy Index and so on.
I certainly don't get a vote on border policy. I get a vote for a candidate that sits in a seat, and even if that were working as best as it possibly could be, that's not me getting a vote. That's not society getting a vote. Even if democracy is working as intended, society does not get to vote
as a society.
I'm not saying whether or not this is a good thing, or even if a different system is feasible at scale, but it's something to think about, particularly in a thread about socialism and collectivist thinking in general (vs. what we have in most modern capitalist democracies).
With regards to "legitimacy", the UK ranks highly on the Democracy Index, but at the moment is on it's third (?) unelected Prime Minister out of four (though I guess Johnson won a single election, after coming in unelected). And this is how our system works. It's
legal. It is possibly not the best system, and it can lead to less-than-optimal outcomes (as the UK is currently experiencing), and there will be people who believe it is legitimate or illegitimate depending on how critically they view the state of democracy working as-intended in the UK. A person might not believe both, but society as a whole will comprise groups of people that believe one or the other.
"legal" is not "moral". And this makes "legitimate" harder to define than you seemingly want to make it, especially if we're talking about what a
society gets to decide on.