So, would you? or another girl question.

[Sidhe]

This is why god invented alchohol .

Beer aint called the water of life in the Bible for nothing. If I could get her in a social situation then maybe it would work, but she doesn't attend office parties

 

[BCLG100]

If you want the job to be pleasant and bearable in the long-term I wouldn't do it.

Whether she is single or not is beside the point.

well he's leaving in a month which is why i said go for it.

 

[BCLG100]

Beer aint called the water of life in the Bible for nothing. If I could get her in a social situation then maybe it would work, but she doesn't attend office parties

Dude just find any reason to be alone with her

Ask her if she wants to go out for a drink after work, you need help with your taxes why doesnt she come round for a meal-i dunno, just find a reason to spend time together if your worried you need one. Just ask her when you get a couple of minutes alone 'fancy going out for a drink/bite to eat?' whats the worst that could happen (no Dr Pepper style moment though )

 

[JerichoHill]

I would never dip my pen in the company oil.

Never.

That's just asking for trouble dude

EDIT: I just realized you said she was dating someone. This is a big no, and I have a horrible opinion if you'd try to break a couple up just for your ego and jollies.

That's shameful

 

[Sidhe]

Dude just find any reason to be alone with her

Ask her if she wants to go out for a drink after work, you need help with your taxes why doesnt she come round for a meal-i dunno, just find a reason to spend time together if your worried you need one. Just ask her when you get a couple of minutes alone 'fancy going out for a drink/bite to eat?' whats the worst that could happen (no Dr Pepper style moment though )

Yes if she walks in and finds me spanking her father with a coal scuttle, the relationship is doomed

 

[downtown]

Ok, so me commenting on the fact that if she had a natural child birth that her vaginal muscles would be really loose automatically equates to my mom being a dirty slut. Alrighty then.

Matt, you do realize that children come down the vagina during childbirth right?

Ohhh, i'm sorry, i totally misunderstood this comment. around here, in that context, that means something else

 

[TheDervish]

Well, it sounds to me like you're attracted to this lady. So you should just go all out and make your move. End your tension NOW. If she's not interested, or otherwise rebuffs you, your "friendship" is over, then work becomes so much more uncomfortable. Then you'll need to quit your job.

The best way to get out of work is to play your boss's head like a bongo drum.

If your boss has hair, first apply copious amounts of Nair to scalp liberally.

 

[Ringo Kid]

Life is too short to waste the opportunity, if you like her, ask her out. Just walk up and say "hey Dollface, if I asked you to go have a beer with me, would you say yes?" Then shutup and see what she has to say. Could be yes, or no I have a boyfriend, or drop dead creep. Either way the issue is settled and you have paid her a compliment. It's only a big deal if you make it one.

 

[Bozo Erectus]

'Hey Dollface?' I think thats only allowed in Film Noir.

 

[downtown]

Dames dont like to be called dollface

 

[BCLG100]

Dames dont like to be called dollface

since when? back in the good ol' days of 1862 they went weak at the knees when i talked to em like that.

 

[Norlamand]

Theoretically, does she look anywhere close to this? If she does the answer is yes, otherwise no.

 

[Yeeek]

Well, i know now for sure she's not with someone (kinda spyed a conversation between them women ). Now i just have to take a deep breath and ask her out, i guess.

Funny how things never changed, i'm not the shy type really but with girls it always been like this. Now i'm an adult (actully, i believe i am? ) and i still can barelly look her in the eyes in fear she understand i got a crush on her (Don't look at me like that, woman can feel this sort of stuff!). What the matter, really what is the matter? I just have to ask her.

I'm questioning myself if i wait a bit or not though, as i'm changing working place pretty soon, i'm holding out a little party with the people i work with, and of course she's invited.. So i don't know.

 

[Mulholland]

That's a really good idea Yeek, about the party that is. If you're leving there'll be no conflict by dating a co-worker. You'll be able to gauge her reaction based on how warm she is to the idea of going to your party. If she brings a boyfriend, don't persue it, it's not worth it. If she says she can't make it because of her kids, she's probably telling the truth, those little buggers demand alot of spare time. In this case i'd get her phone # (from her) before leaving the office, then perhaps you could set up a little rendevous sometime soon down the line.

 

[Sidhe]

Well, i know now for sure she's not with someone (kinda spyed a conversation between them women ). Now i just have to take a deep breath and ask her out, i guess.

Funny how things never changed, i'm not the shy type really but with girls it always been like this. Now i'm an adult (actully, i believe i am? ) and i still can barelly look her in the eyes in fear she understand i got a crush on her (Don't look at me like that, woman can feel this sort of stuff!). What the matter, really what is the matter? I just have to ask her.

I'm questioning myself if i wait a bit or not though, as i'm changing working place pretty soon, i'm holding out a little party with the people i work with, and of course she's invited.. So i don't know.

Women aren't psychic trust me, we just believe they are, when I talk to the particular woman at work I mentioned, I hide my feelings so well even I don't know what they are

The number of times I've done this even when a teenager tells me that they seldom know your intentions unless you tell them, it's wierd but you just assume they do with no relationship to reality, I still do now, but it's a kind of superstition based on shyness. I'm 109 and I'm still no better than a kid when it comes to popping the question, maybe it's the knock backs, maybe it's the shyness, or maybe I'm just cowardly in this regard. I am shy around strangers but I wouldn't consider myself shy by nature. As someone else mentioned alcohol can be very helpful in making the first move, just don't over do it, no one likes a drunken letch

 

[Desmond Hawkins]

well he's leaving in a month which is why i said go for it.

Well, hell ya then. I second the "go for it" motion.

 

[Bungholio]

isn't asking a co-worker out sexual harrasment?

 

[JerichoHill]

It is normally not kosher to do such , yes. But its not illegal.