Stanford rapist only gets 3 months

You think the average poor white person is less politically and socially powerful than the average Mexican immigrant?

I don't know which planet you live on, but I think I know what it can be called.

I'm not really interested in debating the relative levels of power between two incredibly unempowered groups. Seems to rather miss the point.

And... okay. What would you call it? Racist Planet or something? Venus? Not really sure what you're getting at with that one.
 
Yes, I get it now. You have no actual views or opinions to defend. You're just butting in to bolster your edgy and anti-SJW cred.

PS: It's called Ignorance.

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Ramirez agreed to plead guilty to a felony of sexual penetration by force.

Because Ramirez ultimately pleaded guilty to a felony offense that does not have an option for probation or a lighter sentence, Persky was limited in the sentence he could approve for the specific conviction.

He was convicted of a much worse offence than the Stanford guy.
 
I think the guy should've gotten a couple years, but this should also serve as a cautionary tale regarding drinking so much you blackout. Nothing good can possibly happen in that circumstance. At best you hope nothing bad happens.
 
Hmm, I've done that more times than I care to admit yet never came remotely close to raping anyone. Conversely, no woman should have to accept being raped as a risk that comes with the territory of excessive drinking.

Blaming this stuff on excessive alcohol consumption is not just silly, it's borderline offensive.
 
Hmm, I've done that more times than I care to admit yet never came remotely close to raping anyone. Conversely, no woman should have to accept being raped as a risk that comes with the territory of excessive drinking.

Blaming this stuff on excessive alcohol consumption is not just silly, it's borderline offensive.

Also, from what we've learned this guy was a creeper even when sober.
 
Also, from what we've learned this guy was a creeper even when sober.

Yes, I posted an article upthread discussing the what the women on the swim team thought of him. Personally I think the guy clearly has anti-social personality disorder but that's just a hunch.
 
Hmm, I've done that more times than I care to admit yet never came remotely close to raping anyone. Conversely, no woman should have to accept being raped as a risk that comes with the territory of excessive drinking.

Blaming this stuff on excessive alcohol consumption is not just silly, it's borderline offensive.

I never said accepted, just recognized as a risk. Generally getting excessively drunk outside of your own home is not safe. Getting excessively drunk at a frat party is really, really not safe.

It's like if you went walking through a bad part of town during the middle of the night and got mugged. Yeah you'd blame the muggers and want them apprehended but most people know you shouldn't walk there at that time as well.

And I was only talking about this from the woman's side since she couldn't defend herself at all. Alcohol is zero excuse for the guy.
 
Right, but to push the analogy, the problem comes when you start saying 'if you stay in the right places, you won't get mugged', and fail to realise both that you're effectively giving the nod to no-go zones and that most people who get 'mugged' aren't in those areas at all, but are in a place that they think of as safe, with somebody that they at least vaguely know and usually trust. It creates an idea that if you're mugged in that sort of situation, it doesn't count, or it isn't really the same thing, or really as bad, because it doesn't live up to the expectation that you've created. And when victims and jurors start thinking like that, it explains why - to drop the metaphor - you are still overwhelmingly more likely than not to face absolutely no legal consequences from raping somebody. That's really not good.
 
Hmm. Makes a sort of sense. On the other hand, given that attempted rape is always wrong no matter the state of the person, it seems odd to need to specify intoxication or unconsciousness at all for that charge.

I never liked the intoxication excuse for either side. What if both parties are intoxicated? Could both therefore accuse the other of rape because they were too drunk to give consent? Does it turn into a pissing match of "who had a higher blood-alcohol volume"? Would someone just drink more before doing something shady as a defense against the "too intoxicated for consent" under such a scenario?

Unconsciousness is pretty clear-cut obvious. Intoxication is not. Its effects are variant between people and the grey area for this kind of thing is dangerous.

Blaming this stuff on excessive alcohol consumption is not just silly, it's borderline offensive.

I've seen people with excessive alcohol consumption, men and women, apparently awake and acting of their volition claiming they don't remember what happened the next day.

As I never experienced that kind of memory loss, even on the two occasions I was too intoxicated to stand up properly, I had my doubts, but it seems a common enough claim to be true at least sometimes. That brings me back to the above scenario...if two of these people slept with each other, could both claim rape if they didn't like that fact the next day? Would it be fair to put legal ramifications on someone with similar levels of alcohol consumption but more recollection/wits about them, given bother were apparently awake/acting of their volition?

It's a very different case than the OP title case, but it's not a trivial question to answer.

Either way, you can point out a person did something really stupid without blaming them. That level of alcohol consumption isn't safe even in a strict sense; it's the kind of thing where people face-check wall racks and such. You still hold a rapist accountable if you can establish what actually happened though.

If someone runs to another neighborhood yelling slurs and gets shot, they're still a victim, the shooter still a criminal, but that was still a pretty stupid sequence all the same and that would remain the case even the victim was instead left alone entirely.
 
The thing is....I just don't buy that there's a "gray area" there. If you can't tell when someone is too intoxicated to consent, you're a menace who shouldn't be allowed anywhere near women, full stop. Drunkenness is not an excuse for taking sex from someone by force...and the idea that someone might not know when they take a woman (or a man) by force just seems ridiculous to me.

I mean, would "I got too drunk and blacked out" be considered a mitigating factor for any other crime? The answer is no, if anything many judges would probably consider that an aggravating factor.

TheMeInTeam said:
If someone runs to another neighborhood yelling slurs and gets shot, they're still a victim, the shooter still a criminal, but that was still a pretty stupid sequence all the same and that would remain the case even the victim was instead left alone entirely.

But see, I find this comparison offensive too. There is no universe where any rape victim is remotely analogous to this. I actually once lost a friend because he compared rape victims to people who run into the street without looking both ways, and I lost my temper (which I'm not proud of but there it is).

This is a big deal because as Flying Pig points out the nature of our society is such that these comparisons, even when innocently made, contribute to a culture where rape victims are blamed for what happened to them....and thinking this doesn't bleed into the legal system is completely naive when we know that rape victims often end up (figuratively) being put on trial in place of their rapists. The trial becomes all about the behavior of the victim before the crime, the sexual history of the victim, etc. when none of that should be relevant.
 
I clicked on this thread wanting to voice my opinion, but I don't think I can put it any better than Lexicus already did. Props to you :thumbsup:

All this talk about mugging in dark places has got me thinking about 'Thieves in the Night' if you catch my drift :lol:
 
But see, I find this comparison offensive too. There is no universe where any rape victim is remotely analogous to this. I actually once lost a friend because he compared rape victims to people who run into the street without looking both ways, and I lost my temper (which I'm not proud of but there it is).

Even if you think this is horrendously incorrect (which I'd argue with), "this is offensive" is still a really weak argument. If something is wrong then it's wrong, if it's right then it's right. How offensive any individual person finds it in either case is neither here nor there. If someone thinks they're right and you tell them you're offended, they're not going to care at all. You're also not telling them why you think they're wrong.
 
The thing is....I just don't buy that there's a "gray area" there. If you can't tell when someone is too intoxicated to consent, you're a menace who shouldn't be allowed anywhere near women, full stop. Drunkenness is not an excuse for taking sex from someone by force...and the idea that someone might not know when they take a woman (or a man) by force just seems ridiculous to me.

No. This is one-sided argument and can't hold rationally if both sides are "too intoxicated to consent" (presumably this is a conscious, but mostly unresponsive person, otherwise he/she is capable of representing consent). When that happens, which person is the rapist? You're not being clear on that issue.

I mean, would "I got too drunk and blacked out" be considered a mitigating factor for any other crime? The answer is no, if anything many judges would probably consider that an aggravating factor.

I'm positing a scenario where it's the "victim" (said in quotes because both people could claim they're the victim with equal evidence) that claims they blacked out, while both are drunk. Said person was awake the whole time. The next day one (or both) claim they were taken advantage of while drunk.

That's not grey to you? What the heck are you supposed to do with that? I've seen something like this come up, thankfully not directly involved with it. But maybe my judgment wouldn't have been so strong, if I'd had enough to black out. I'll never know now, I'm too old to physically endure that level of binge drinking and still wind up with something resembling an enjoyable experience.

But see, I find this comparison offensive too.

I'm not saying the criminal is less to blame, or that the victim is to blame for the crime. But it's still a stupid action to get intoxicated to the extent you black out, full stop. That can get you waking up injured in a ditch, sunburned to heck on a park bench, stuff stolen, or any other number of nonsense things, even if nobody committed a criminal act in some of those cases. The drug itself poses danger at that point as well. Knowingly exposing yourself to risk/harm is stupid regardless of the consequences.

I'm not so easily offended though, even if you get mad :). But if I'm wrong in creating this analogy you'll need to present more evidence than how you feel about it to be convincing. This isn't a "no go zone" type issue, this is a "don't toss excessive quantities of a (usually temporarily) debilitating drug into your body" issue, and that makes it different than flying pig's example with mugging and closer to intentionally exposing oneself to risk.
 
TheMeInTeam said:
No. This is one-sided argument and can't hold rationally if both sides are "too intoxicated to consent" (presumably this is a conscious, but mostly unresponsive person, otherwise he/she is capable of representing consent). When that happens, which person is the rapist? You're not being clear on that issue.

Probably the person who raped the other person? Rapists aren't "too drunk to consent," too drunk to consent is also too drunk to rape...

TheMeInTeam said:
I'm positing a scenario where it's the "victim" (said in quotes because both people could claim they're the victim with equal evidence) that claims they blacked out, while both are drunk. Said person was awake the whole time. The next day one (or both) claim they were taken advantage of while drunk.

I think you have a flawed notion of what it means to take advantage of someone who's too drunk to consent, because there's no way it could plausibly "go both ways." That's a one-way street.
Having enough evidence to prove it in a court of law is a different matter.

TheMeInTeam said:
I'm not so easily offended though, even if you get mad . But if I'm wrong in creating this analogy you'll need to present more evidence than how you feel about it to be convincing. This isn't a "no go zone" type issue, this is a "don't toss excessive quantities of a (usually temporarily) debilitating drug into your body" issue, and that makes it different than flying pig's example with mugging and closer to intentionally exposing oneself to risk.

Why make a general and unrelated point that drinking lots of alcohol is bad in a thread about rape? What does the fact that drinking a lot is stupid have to do with the responsibility that rapists have for committing rape?

As for 'no-go-zone' we are talking a conceptual no-go zone, obviously. The analogy is perfect because when you say "oh well it was stupid of that mugging victim to go into that bad neighborhood" when someone wants to talk about the problem of muggings it has an obvious implication.
 
Probably the person who raped the other person? Rapists aren't "too drunk to consent," too drunk to consent is also too drunk to rape...

Okay, if that's how you define, it I would agree with your position. It seems the law/accusations have a lower threshold of intoxication, but I would readily agree that if we're talking people that far gone than if both people are in that state nothing's happening anyway, aside maybe a pool of vomit or so.

Having enough evidence to prove it in a court of law is a different matter.

This is the worst thing about it as an environment IMO. I'd estimate most accusations are not fabricated, but since some are it lets a lot of criminal behavior go free because the nature of the crime is such that there normally wouldn't be witnesses, least of all sober/reliable ones.

Why make a general and unrelated point that drinking lots of alcohol is bad in a thread about rape? What does the fact that drinking a lot is stupid have to do with the responsibility that rapists have for committing rape?

I got partially tangential from MB's comment, because thinking about the "intoxication" aspect of a rape claim caused me to recall some things, both stuff I saw go on in college parties and one hearsay story from high school.

These are the ones where you have legitimate doubts, not situations where the victim is either unconscious or so sluggish/not with it that they aren't expressing much of anything effectively. The latter are pretty obvious assault/rape cases and should have trivial convictions if you have witnesses/evidence.

The analogy is perfect because when you say "oh well it was stupid of that mugging victim to go into that bad neighborhood" when someone wants to talk about the problem of muggings it has an obvious implication.

As Flying Pig points out, people are typically mugged in a place they think of as safe. I doubt many rational people will tell you that they believe drinking enough alcohol to black out is safe (regardless of location!), so we already have significantly different standards applying from "go". These are not "perfect" analogies of each other. It's more like a mugging victim walking up to greet someone they see has a gun out from 100+ yards away. Going into the neighborhood might be reasonable, the latter not so much.

The gunman is still a criminal if they mug/shoot the person. The person still made a poor choice to approach someone brandishing a weapon. I hold that removing bias from sentencing is a better solution than dancing around the issue of choices. I see no reason to believe a judge is superior to other human beings to the extent of consistently avoiding bias in sentencing, which carries a direct implication of injustice applicable to the end of Flying Pig's paragraph. Insofar as we can determine an optimal sentence, it should be consistent to the crime.

The choice (and it is a choice!) to drink sufficient quantities of alcohol to black out is *strictly* poor. That's a sensible "no go zone", similar to stabbing yourself in the forearm is a sensible no go zone, and should not be compared to simply entering a neighborhood!

The obvious implication is that criminals exist. While it would be great if they are caught/punished and even greater if they didn't exist, they do. Rational people shouldn't live in fear, but nor should they knowingly engage in behavior that is risky and damaging in a consistent fashion...even if there is no criminal activity at all, people still die from that choice. Not at high odds, but at much higher odds than if they don't.
 
Probably the person who raped the other person? Rapists aren't "too drunk to consent," too drunk to consent is also too drunk to rape...

I think you have a flawed notion of what it means to take advantage of someone who's too drunk to consent, because there's no way it could plausibly "go both ways." That's a one-way street.
Having enough evidence to prove it in a court of law is a different matter.

So you seem to be saying here that only blacked out/drooling in a corner levels of drunk are too drunk to consent? That if you're still able to walk, hold conversations, initiate sex etc then you're not too drunk to consent? Interesting.
 
So you seem to be saying here that only blacked out/drooling in a corner levels of drunk are too drunk to consent? That if you're still able to walk, hold conversations, initiate sex etc then you're not too drunk to consent? Interesting.

That's a fair case to make TBH. If a person can state consent or initiate it (and he/she does so) they can and should be held accountable to their choices. Putting the burden on someone else who took their words/actions in good faith is nonsense. That's especially true if both parties are drunk.

If you don't set that standard, the situation I presented above is extremely problematic. If you do set that standard, you have a clear point where someone shouldn't be messed with. Or maybe give the poor fool some water and send them home with their DD. I'd prefer to avoid a walking time bomb of vomit, property damage, or inadvertent self-harm lol.
 
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But it's still a stupid action to get intoxicated to the extent you black out, full stop.


I agree. Well put. Furthermore, your statement is not outside the bounds of this discussion.
 
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