Terxpahseyton
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Let me clarify, then. If in spite of you best efforts you come forth as a jerk, then this is not what I mean by being a jerk. What I mean are people who for a lack of effort come forth as jerks. In the case discussed, people who in a (more or less) private conversation invoke their 'right' to say whatever they want lack effort. Not lacking effort would for instance mean to merely seek understanding for ones own POV. It means to try to establish a mutual exchange on personal terms rather than avoiding such an effort by invoking an entitlement. That is how productive exchanges work and always have. Else you create advisory attitudes and power struggles.
Put differently, when it comes to taming the power of the one holding the monopoly of force, entitlements or rights are due and shall be invoked when necessary. When it comes to personal disagreements, the sensible and mature thing to do is to seek mutual understanding. Especially since usually freedom of speech will legally not even apply.
Put differently, when it comes to taming the power of the one holding the monopoly of force, entitlements or rights are due and shall be invoked when necessary. When it comes to personal disagreements, the sensible and mature thing to do is to seek mutual understanding. Especially since usually freedom of speech will legally not even apply.