It's the odds of it happening to anyone's kids, not just my own. To put it plainly (and on topic) it's something that is being used by others to try and take away my liberty and rights. I understand many of you will think that's an absurd statement but it isn't an absurd statement to me (or many, many others). If "you" are going to use something as evidence to try and convince "me" that I should give up something I consider sacrosanct, I think it's very proper for "me" to ask "you" to bring receipts.
People don't tend to want to bring these receipts on this topic because once you start making distinctions like "Columbine/Parkland/Uvalde/etc. school shooting" and "shooting that happened to take place at a school," the odds as well as average deaths are so absurdly minimal that using them as an argument for policy change is clearly just a heartstring tactic, which is where you get people reverting to the, "any death is too many deaths" argument, which tends to bring a lot of applause, and is used to shut down any objective look at the topic.
From what I've seen, if we're talking about a "Columbine style" school shooting, we're talking about something that kills less kids a year than hot cars, and you might remember what my take is on that topic since it's also come up in threads from years ago we've both participated in. This is not the kind of event or data that is going to convince me to give up my liberties (and again, I get you might think that's an absurd statement - but it's not absurd to me).
Frankly, the data available on all gun deaths doesn't convince me (or many, many others) that it's worth giving up this liberty "to stop" (if it even would), so what I flat out accuse the media and many Democrats of doing is taking a highly emotional but exceptionally unlikely event like a Columbine school shooting and using it to basically vilify anyone who disagrees with them and is against gun control. It's annoying, because "you" might as well vilify me for not wanting to close beaches due to shark attacks, or not wanting to force every car manufacture to install sensors because of hot car deaths.
It's also very interesting to me that if you advocate bulking up school countermeasures or defenses, you're "paranoid" but this is still a topic so important that one should give up their liberty for a little bit of safety. Which one is it?
I don't think it's necessary (or productive) for me to do the thing where I edit your post with strikethroughs and bolds to illustrate how the exact argument you are making directly contradicts your position on the issue of transwomen participation in womens sports. The reason I brought that otherwise unrelated issue up, was to confront you with the fact that your rationale for your position is inconsistent with your own prior expressed positions. In other words, why are you concerned with the athlete losing their sports opportunity to a transwomen athlete
despite the low odds of it affecting your kids, but less concerned about the girl losing their life to school shootings,
because of the low odds it would affect your kids? Why the inconsistency?
My hot-take/theory is that its because of the
political implications of the positions. Your
expressed rationale is inconsistent, however, what
is consistent are
the politics of your positions. You take the bog-standard Conservative/Republican position when it comes to transwomen participating in womens sports, ie skepticism/aversion etc., and similarly the bog-standard Conservative/Republican position when it comes to calls for gun control in the wake of school shootings, ie skepticism/aversion etc. It makes perfect sense,
but its just straightforward partisanship, not principle or logic. I get the impression that you have convinced yourself, or at least hold the belief that your position is
logical and/or principled. What I'm demonstrating to you, is that its not. Your position isn't principled, its just Republican/Conservative. Your position isn't principled/logical... as it contradicts your expressed/implied reasoning/principles in taking other positions.
My point then is to suggest to you, that your position on this issue, (ie calls for gun control in the wake of school shootings) is not so much
principled as it is
partisan. That is to say, my impression is that your position is simply the standard party/ideological line and there isn't much more to it than that... which to be fair, is perfectly normal, perfectly commonplace. I'm just trying to get you to consider that your claimed rationale for your position does not stand up to scrutiny, in terms of logic, or more particularly,
consistency with your position on another controversial issue,
except when viewed through the lense of straightforward, partisanship. In other words, you are skeptical, against, unmotivated, etc., when it comes to gun control in this context,
because that is the Republican position... and that's all there is to it.
So I'm not suggesting that your position is "absurd". I'm not asking you to give up your guns, or your sacrosanct liberties, or however you want to redefine euphemize "guns". Your position makes sense to me, without regard to whether I agree with it. All I'm doing is pointing out to you that your position upon examination, appears to be mostly partisan in nature, and your attempts at rationalization, are demonstrably internally inconsistent... further highlighting that the rationalizations aren't legitimate, but more likely a post facto, possibly subconscious (also very common) attempt to convince yourself (and maybe others) that your position is something more nuanced/reasoned than straightforward partisan ideology.
Again, my point isn't necessarily to condemn straightforward partisan ideology as a justification for a position. It makes perfect sense to me. My point is to try to confront you with the apparent fact that your current argument about "odds" and "receipts" does not add up, and encourage you to take a thoughtful look at the effect simple partisanship plays in your positions.
EDIT: The other, possible straightforward explanation that I can see, is captured in
@Ziggy Stardust 's post above. If you're a gun/gun-rights enthusiast you are going to tend to be more resistant to calls for gun control. But again, that's the rationale, not arguments about "odds" and so forth... Its just that you like guns, so you don't want them to be restricted. Makes sense... but its not about logic or principle, its about personal preference/amusement/fetish.