The disagreement is over the legality of abortion. In a political context, having a position on "abortion" just tells you whether or not you think it should be allowed to happen.
Oh. Well, in that case... it used to be illegal in Canada, and now it isn't. Catholic hospitals still get a boatload of excuses as to why they don't have to perform one, Catholic doctors are supposed to refer patients to doctors willing to perform the procedure (but some refuse), some nurses stick their noses in the stratosphere and say they won't do so much as fetch a glass of water for a woman who is an abortion patient, no matter the reason why she had one (even if it's a life-threatening reason such as an ectopic pregnancy), and it's just fine and hunky-dory for a group of sign-waving protesters to stand across the street (terrorists in my view, since their real purpose is to intimidate and harass), chanting bible passages, telling them god hates them, and all kinds of other reprehensible acts.
Yes, I'm aware of freedom of expression, but there has to be a limit when one group's freedom of expression actively promotes terror toward a group of medically vulnerable women.
Oh, sorry. Thread wasn't created by me, remember. I just want to debate what I consider to be unfair terminology.
Terminology is something that can easily be twisted to mean its opposite, or it can come to mean its opposite, depending on how its proponents apply the terms.
Mere inconvenience often seems sufficient to deter suicides and mass shootings. So the emotional impact of watching a film or ultrasound, or hearing a religious perspective may stop an abortion.
Do you not realize how insulting and even cruel it is to force women to do these things, as if their minds are not already made up and time is of the essence? The purpose of these extra rules is not only to guilt-trip her into reversing her decision, but also to force her to jump through hoops that will make her ineligible for the abortion because she'll have had to waste days or weeks on this bureaucratic claptrap instead of getting everything over and done with. Then they'll tell her that too much time has passed and she has to continue the pregnancy whether she wants to or not.
As for mere information, it's overrated. Imagine that the government was rounding up the mentally incapacitated to execute. Would believers in this policy be more likely to turn over their neighbors/family after hearing words like "termination of undesirables" or "killing the helpless?" If the victims were drugged and had masks so you couldn't see their faces, or if they struggled and cried on the way to the chair?
This appeal to my heartstrings is not working, and is off-topic anyway. This thread is not about the mentally incapacitated. Information, if it consists of the facts for the purpose to inform the patient of her physical condition, her available options, and what risks she would incur depending on her decision - given honestly, mind you, not deliberate lies intended to scare the patient into following the doctor's or hospital's preferred religious stance - is not overrated.
But that is not relevant. The same thing applies to everyone, no matter what they do.
You're saying it's irrelevant that I say my opinion of another woman's pregnancy is irrelevant?
Not providing them with help doesn't automatically mean they're scorning them. And if they act to save lives, then don't offer financial assistance to the people they saved as they grow up, it doesn't mean they were wrong to save them in the first place.
What's the point of forcing a woman to carry to term if she can't support the baby, doesn't want to give it up for adoption, and then society basically makes it impossible for her to care for the baby properly because she can't get a job (due to most employers frowning on women taking their babies to work with them) or because she had to drop out of school or college to have the baby and therefore has no qualifications, and with childcare as expensive as it is, she'd never get ahead anyway? And then the same people who point and judge her for getting pregnant in the first place then proceed to remove as many of the services and funding as possible that could actually help her raise the kid in a safe and responsible way... supposedly because she doesn't "deserve" them. After all, it must be totally 100% her fault for getting pregnant at all, right? Even if it was due to incest or rape or birth control that failed.
As I said: Too many judgmental people are pro-pregnancy, but once that baby is born, they simply don't care.
How many of these same judgmental people are the ones who raise a self-righteous hue and cry over age-appropriate sex education in schools? There was actually some dumbfool man on CBC.ca ranting that 12 was too young to teach his precious princess about sex - wait until she's older, like at least 14. Newsflash, grandpa-to-be: Some girls can get pregnant as young as
9. Mind you, the 9-year-olds who get pregnant are more likely to be rape victims than merely irresponsible junior-high-school students - some of whom may also be rape victims, or who wanted to have safe sex but couldn't access what they needed.
Of course I'm sympathetic. Why does that have to mean I'm okay with it? Are they one and the same to you?
Sympathetic, to me, means trying to make things easier - or at the very least, not trying to make things harder.
IMHO "pro-choice" simply means that a woman has the right to seek an abortion for any reason without interference from society or the government. "Pro-abortion" can loosely be defined as the same thing. It's simply a matter of linguistic juggling, except with this emotionally charged topic, you're juggling chainsaws. I prefer to call the "pro-life" people "anti-abortionists", because that is really what they are. It's an "If the shoe fits, wear it" sort of thing.
Far too many are really "pro-pregnancy." They're only too happy to support laws to cut social supports, health programs, educational funding, and screech about the impoverished new mothers' need to get a job... and then after failing to support programs or funding for adequate childcare, they'll climb on a pedestal and smugly berate the women for becoming pregnant in the first place (even though they might have tried to access birth control, or they might have been raped).
And actually, if you read any Canadian based opinion on the subject, you'll find that the way that I use the term is very similar to the pro-choice movement here in Canada.
I'm reminded of a current argument going on on CBC.ca:
http://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/scheer-summer-grant-jobs-abortion-1.4484588
The Reformacon leader, Andrew Scheer, is upset that the federal government refuses to issue grant money to religious organizations to hire students for summer jobs if one of the organization's purposes is to deter or prohibit women accessing abortion services:
article said:
Opposition leader Andrew Scheer is accusing the Liberal government of "imposing" the prime minister's views on faith groups that fear they will be denied funding for summer jobs due to their positions on abortion.
On Wednesday, Prime Minister Justin Trudeau told a town hall in Hamilton that groups are welcome to apply for the Canada Summer Jobs program, but if those groups infringe upon a woman's right to choose, "that's where … we draw the line as a country."
Of course there is plenty of bleating in the comments that the Prime Minister is punishing faith organizations for their opinions, but they miss the point that while people are free to think whatever they want, they are not free to interfere with women accessing legal reproductive health services.
Mouthwash said:
I think if the abortion crowd used half the energy they expend on making the killing of fetuses acceptable to campaign for better birth control, this entire debate would be marginalized due to lack of interest. (I'm strongly against birth control, but it's a better option than abortion.)
What makes you think we don't campaign for better birth control? And how is that even a coherent argument on your part, given that you say you're "strongly against birth control"?
It looks like you just want babies, more babies, more babies after that, and yeah, let's have some MOAR BABIEZ!!!. Who cares if the mother is financially able to care for them, who cares if she was raped, who cares if she's a 9-year-old incest victim who will be at risk of dying herself because 9-year-old bodies aren't usually physically developed enough to go through the processes of pregnancy and labor, who cares if the pregnancy will kill the mother? (and keep in mind that in many of these cases, if the mother dies, the baby will die as well)
I am definitely in favor of age-appropriate sex education and explanations of how the human body really works. Thank goodness the schools in this province make some effort. Neither my mother nor grandmother bothered. There are actually people who think it's "sinful" to explain all this stuff because somehow the knowledge of what's going on and how to stay safe and responsible will confer a license and encouragement to put on an orgy, or something.
Mouthwash said:
It's still not okay to kill someone even if your life is miserable and their death will bring you great joy.
Are you seriously suggesting that having an abortion brings women "great joy"?
It might bring relief, depending on the situation, but I sincerely doubt it would bring "great joy."
Here's an anecdote from 30+ years ago (it has to do with one of my cats, not a human, but does involve abortion): In the summer of 1986 a stray cat had 2 kittens under the back porch. When they were old enough we took those kittens to the SPCA. During the time when we were trying to tame the mother cat to adopt her, she became pregnant again - this time she had 5 kittens (born October 14, 1986). We found homes for 2, another 2 went to the SPCA, and we kept the runt. During this pregnancy she decided to move into the house. Later on, after this last kitten was weaned, we decided to have the cat spayed.
What I didn't know was that at the time I took her in to be spayed, she was already pregnant - again. The vet didn't bother to call and ask me for a decision about it - to postpone the spaying until the kittens were born and weaned. He went ahead and aborted them. I've felt guilty about that for 30 years, although of course I hadn't known (it was too early in the pregnancy for anyone to know). The only way I can forgive myself at all is the rationalization that it would have been her third litter within a year (domestic cats have gestation periods of approximately 9 weeks) and she'd already had 7 kittens. Expecting more of her would have been difficult, and of course there would have been yet more kittens to find homes for; we couldn't keep all of them.
That's the closest I've ever come to abortion. I did not celebrate it. It did not bring me "great joy." I don't know how my cat felt about it. I suspect that had I been able to explain it to her, she might have been relieved that she wouldn't have to have yet more babies in such a short time (2 months' worth of pregnancy and another 6-8 weeks to nurse and wean them).