I suspect I'm the villain being alluded to here by Farm Boy. For the record, I've read-in some of the hints he drops. There are definitely pro-life people who I respect more than some pro-choice people. I judge paradigms by their ability to motivate action
But I advocate that people actually show discretion with regards to the future life of the person when choosing to reproduce, like to weight them and then change behaviour based on what will happen. We all acknowledge that people do so, I just have opined on what matters, and will be frustrated if people don't. "Refusing to create" is being interpreted as "previous people shouldn't have been made", as if it's some type of condemnation of the person that was forced into existence. Or, worse, as if I am advocating culling rather than refusing to create. It's a bit of a paradigm difference between culling and refusing to create, but I think it's a difference held in good faith.
Edited for clarity, I hope