I mean. It's nearly verbatim an argument ISIS uses to attract volunteers from the West. They identify and target lonely, isolated Muslim males, convince them their failings and loneliness are the result of a Western conspiracy to corrupt women and keep Muslims in a position of inferiority, and then promise them things like power and wives (read: sex slaves) to help them fight the good fight and defeat the conspiracy.
Like, reading the way the Incel community has lionized and canonized "martyrs" like "Saint Elliot" Rodger and "Saint Cho" (i.e. Seung-Hui Cho, the VT shooter) reads eerily similar to other terrorist reactionary/fundamentalist groups.
Sure they're young. Sure young people have stupid ideas about the world that they often grow out of. But 1) not all of these people are actually all that young, and 2) it doesn't at all excuse the horrifying things that many of these people contemplate, some execute, and many idolize afterwards. Should we excuse Elliot Rodger, a man who murdered 6 women and injured 14 more simply because he happened to be 22 when he did it? Should we excuse Seung-Hui Cho who murdered 33 because he was 23?
three of the five 9/11 hijackers were under 25 when they committed their attacks. Should we excuse their deeds as the acts of naïve, misguided youths as well?
There's a big problem with angry/depressed young men drifting in life, thinking, often accurately (if somewhat exaggerated), that they have no realistic hope for satisfaction in the mainstream world. I don't know if the number of such men has increased lately or not, but it seems like it has at least in terms of random acts of rage against the world at large, even as most other classes of homicide become rarer. Sometimes the acts of violence come from some form of extremism ranging from Islamism to incelism, other times they don't have any discernible ideology.
To drag in the topic of another thread, the biggest reason I like Jordan Peterson despite disagreeing with many of his political and philosophical ideas is that he's one of the very few people who seems to care about aimless young men, who then goes on to do a good job of speaking to them, without being a radical. I wish there were more people who shared that goal.