Well, as a Biochemist of formation, I have to mildy disagree with Kazbar. We simply don't know how life appeard in here and, to say the truth , we don't have a good definiton of what life is, to start..... So we simply can't say if the appearance of life is easy or not.
The best definion of life that we have ( and a somewhat unsophisticated one ) is that life is a system with self replication possibilities ( this makes computer virus living things... ) and, besides computer virus ( and some hand made bio virus )

, we haven't had any kind of even promissing results on creating something that we can call alive ( to say the truth we can't even understand very well the methabolism of bacteria..... )
Other issue is life spread. Earth life had showed that it has huge adaptation abilities and there is absolutely no place in this planet surface that does not have a alive creature on it... This makes me think that Earth-style life could easily spread thought a galaxy if they find a way of getting out of the starting planet ( easier to say than to do... panspermia is not that easy to acheive unless there is a inteligent effort on it )
But even if we found a alien inteligence, I highly doubt that we could talk with them,, unless they want to go maths on it... we live in the same planet than Chimpazees ,dolphins, all the sort of whales, elephants and even octopus ( all very inteligent and communicating animals ) and we are are only starting to understand them.....