dusters
Emperor
Exactly. I'm getting more than a little sick and tired of this "the world is crap, we must all be depressed and seriousface all the time because...reasons" attitude. And I think this attitude really comes from people who don't have a family to take care of. I only really have personal experience to go on here, but I've noticed that before my friends and I had families, we were all like the "young activists" you describe. But as we matured and actually started getting real life responsibilities, suddenly the problems of strangers in far away lands just didn't seem nearly as important as the problems and needs of our own households.
I guess it's just easier for people to care about things that don't concern them when they only have themselves to take care of and don't have anyone else directly depending on them.
Does this mean that making kids and family is some sort of escapism mechanism to forget what is going around one? I agree with "Care about yourself, then your family, and if you have more energy, everythine else" approach, but this sounds as if people who can't afford a family/find a partner/ make a family for legal reasons (my case) are somehow out of luck.
I'm in early 30s and I have given up on working voluntary work, because it actually cost me a lot of money and effort and I saw little progress. And I have dreamed of making a family for at least last 10 years. I'm sure I can say I envy you, yet it's not like I have stopped caring about issues outside my house, it is just that I have stopped actively spending time to do more research/ voluntary work.