Where do you draw most of your moral framework from?

To which moral framework do you mostly ascribe?

  • I draw heavily from the Strict Father framework.

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  • I draw lightly from the Strict Father framework.

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Onionsoilder

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I'm taking a few sociology and psychology classes now that I'm in college, and I'm finding them to be quite interesting. Now, I realize that as beginner level classes these hardly make me an expert on anything and I may not really understand the whole situation, but I still want to discuss this and see how the CFC forum goers relate to this.

Overview
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Right now we are covering two primary mental frameworks, which are said to mostly be established as a child grows into an adult. On one side there is the conservative "Scrict Father" framework and on the other, the progressive "Nurturing Parent" framework. Few people fall 100% into one or the other, and most possess mixes from both.

Those with a dominant Strict Father mentality often see the presence of an authoritarian figure as a good thing that induces stability; this is the father of a household for example. The father generally knows what is best for the family, so the wife and kids should discipline themselves to comply with his wishes. Work is seen as a rewards system; if you do the work, you get paid for it. If you want something, you work for it.

Those with a dominant Nurturing Parent mentality often hold a view that it is best if everyone cooperates and works together. Everyone should be given a voice in making decisions, even if they don't know as much as the Father would. Work is seen less as an effort and reward system, and more of a cooperative effort to accomplish something.

Now what I'm trying to do is see how these mental frameworks, assuming they are true, relate to viewpoints held in everyday life. I will utilize the following examples to try and explain this better:

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On the topic of welfare:
Those with a conservative framework typically frown upon welfare and social programs. In their mind, they tend to see that people who don't have something, don't have it because they didn't work for it. They are lazy and undisciplined, and should not be given handouts. Instead, they should be inspired or motivated to work and earn what they desire.

Those with a progressive framework often support welfare and social programs. In their mind, they don't see those who lack something as lazy or undisciplined enough to obtain it; they just see someone who needs something they don't have available. This should be remedied by providing for their basic needs, in hopes that in the future those same people who were given welfare will give back in return when they get the opportunity to do so.

On the topic of religion:
Conservatives tend to be more religious than progressives, though there can certainly be nonreligious conservatives and religious progressives. Conservatives see their object of worship, typically God(s), as the ideal father figure that induces stability in their lives. They discipline themselves to follow religious morality because they feel that these beings both know what is best and how to bring that about.

Progressives tend to be less religious, because they do not completely ascribe to the authoritative father figure. They view life as a collaborative effort, and prefer to collaborate with their peers who they work with on a daily basis. The idea of worshiping a superior being who does not collaborate with them regularly often seems strange or foreign.

On the topic of regulation:

Conservatives tend to be against government regulation in economics, because they tend to feel that those in power (CEOs, Directors, etc.) have gotten there through hardwork and good understanding, and thus are best equipped to make decisions. These figures know through experience what is the best action to take, and trust that this experience will guide the nation through the times, both good and bad.

Progressives tend to be for government regulation, feeling that any one individual holding too much power will not hold the community's interests at heart. They feel that work is a collaborative effort, and that because we have grown too large to manage in a directly communal way, the government, which is elected by the people and this holds their interests at heart, should make sure that everything runs smoothly.
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I hope I did a good enough job of explaining those. Anyway, I don't mean to say that any one is better or worse than another, I just want to get an opinion on how CFCers, particularly ones with strong conservative or liberal viewpoints, ascribe themselves to these policies. Poll will be up shortly.

Personally, I draw quite a bit from both frameworks. I tend to see a lot of issues with a progressive viewpoint, were I feel that people should be working together on various issues, but I also draw some from the conservative viewpoint, were I feel that discipline and effective leadership is important (though I believe that ultimately people should be self-disciplined, and not disciplined in order to follow an authority figure).
 
Thanks for including that last option; I don't want the state to be my mother or my father.
 
That... that's not what I meant. It's supposed to be more of a moral outlook, not how you see the government. The Strict Father and Nurturing Parent names are just that; names.
 
I suppose... Maybe I just chose bad examples. There is another example in the definition itself, which relates to how the family itself is seen. The point of this thread was sort of to step outside of politics for a moment and look at the bigger picture of that moral truths are held to be self-evident by different people with different viewpoints. I guess I failed in that instance. Maybe I just don't know this topic well enough to make a coherent post.
 
Trust me when i say this, if i didn't find these boards years ago i wouldn't be as liberal or atheist like i am now a days.

The Europeans on this board had a huge influence in the way i think and made me actually think about politics and i became more socialist.
 
I think I get your question, but I also think it is a horrible reference system that has little practical application as it fits poorly to reality.

Should I share my view on most of the Humanities as well? :p

Vote for the last option, but if you demand that I fit into your framework, put me down for the 'draw equally from both frameworks', though I would seriously question the 'equally' part as well.

As an example of my views relating to your examples:
I think that work is a reward system. I don't like it when people are given things for nothing. Still, children come into the world with nothing but their DNA and a potential. To demand that they work their way up from that starting point is ridiculous, and they therefore need to be given teachings and resources to grow. Likewise, I can argue that poor people didn't work for it, weren't smart enough, are lazy and undisciplined. However, they are thus because they weren't brought up properly. Just like the children, to expect them to work themselves out of it can in many situations be unreasonable. But their lacking upbringing wasn't my fault - and thus I should be obliged to fix the problem: The people to blame are their parents! Finally, I am aware that this view is simplified, and pragmatically speaking, society (and by extension, me) is best served by at least doing something for poor people. But ideally, no-one should have to...
 
It is when the social sciences try and make pretty little categorizations like this that they turn into nonsense. It doesn't explain anything well, it doesn't prove anything, it doesn't prescribe anything. It just makes uncritical thinkers think that they have just ordered the universe; it makes them think they understand human behavior, when they don't.

Moral preferences and influences are far too complicated to be placed into binaries. Further, I really don't understand the use paternal/ maternal metaphors to explain empirical phenomena. Its just silly.
 
That's sort of sexist, and untruthfully so.

Anyway, the state should not be like a parent. It should remain but a servant of the people. In fact, in my opinion, a good state should be as close to synonymous with the people as possible. Never, however, should the state be placed above the people.

I am in favour of the welfare state, but your framework is extremely silly, particularly so far as it concerns liberals. I hope not that the state will nurture me, but that it will merely bring me help when I need it, and otherwise back out of my life, whereas parenthood is a somewhat more reciprocal arrangement.

Your parallel is seriously awful.
 
I'm glad that so many also voted the way I did (the last option). Sometimes I might hope for agreement like that in a thread but it's usually rare.
 
The poll should have included South Park and The Daily Show as an option. And I didn't turn out much like like my strict father.
 
I draw it from the Insane Uncle framework (you know that drunk uncle that everyone avoids at family get together because he likes to touch you in ways that make you uncomfortable and spews racial epitaphs all the time. Yeah that one.)
 
A portion of my moral framework comes from the progressive ideals expressed in part of the Old Testament and reinforced by Jesus.
 
i dont know if i agree with the "frameworks" posted, in that, at least the way they are being presented, seem to be defined as opposites, or as extremes on a spectrum, actually, i think there are VERY strict parents that are VERY nurturing and there are VERY permissive parents that are VERY neglectful....

if u want to take into consideration that perhaps most people think in generalizations and unconsciously place themselves in convenient "boxes" so they don’t have to think much about their decisions, then, perhaps, the frameworks can actually seem rather practical.....

while i think it is true that "I am a product of my experiences", that may be a little simplistic if u believe that the person whom you have become is the product of some logical or rational thought process.....there is much more to the unconscious mind (or at least, according to most whom have studied the subject)

since the time u r born (perhaps before), from the time u first cry out of hunger, or uncomfortable because u have soiled yourself, u begin to manipulate your environment, thus begins your journey in decision making. u have certain tools at your disposal, your genes, we r all born with certain predispositions (including temperament, “god given” or natural talents and risks to certain illnesses to just name a few) which the environment then acts on…..most is totally unconscious….i’ll give u an oversimplified example given a “strict” parent….one kid, with an “easy going” temperament is sternly reprimanded and learns to “identify” with that parent and develops traits that are similar, another, “butts heads” with his parents and develops another defense “reaction-formation”, doing the opposite, although the parent behavior was the same, the result was the opposite…..so it can get quite complicated

i think “goodness of fit” and CONSISTENCY between parent and child FAR outweigh any generalized model in terms of developing some sort of consistent “morality” and happiness for that matter……
 
I'll play along.

I probably draw roughly equally from both.
 
I bow neither to authority nor to cognitive dissonance.

I hope your professor is not teaching this stuff as fact. (IMO) Until we can reduce psychological processes to models in neuroscience, large portions of the soft sciences (sociology, psychology) are going to be BS.


edit:
This topic intrigued me, so I looked it up further, and found the original article: http://www.wwcd.org/issues/Lakoff.html

The motivations behind this psychological model are obviously political and partisan (the author makes strong overtures confirming it), so the origin of this model is plagued with bias.

edit: After reading further, this model was not originally meant to be psychological in the slightest! It is a predominantly political manifesto that uses family as analogy for government. It's another piece of convoluted political baloney.
 
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