That's why I essentially think gift giving between me and my wife is stupid. We only have joint accounts, so I'm basically telling her to buy me stuff I would just buy anyway and I get annoyed when she buys something I wasn't going to buy myself cus I don't want to spend the money. But she likes the thought that goes into gift giving so I do it begrudgingly to make her happy.
Yes, we have given up any thought to trying to buy for each other besides small things. My wife buys what she wants and and if she doesn't need it right away, I wrap it for Christmas. She looks at my worn out slippers and suggests a replacement pair; I agree and she buys them to wrap. We are past actually "needing" much stuff and are not big into shopping to shop. This year we gave each other a trip to St. Louis for our granddaughter's birthday. Her's included a three week stay and trip back on the train. Mine 4 days with flying each way.Happy wife, happy life.
We give "HINTS" but I like to buy a couple of items that will surprise her.
She does also. So we get the best of both worlds.