I voted too far away to matter, but it's important to understand that "far away" means in time as well as space. Man has been capable of sending and receiving radio signals for barely a century, and by the looks of things, won't be able to for all that much longer. So if we are anything to go by, a civilization has a "life span" measured in centuries, meaning before or after that time, sending or hearing radio signals is beyond the technical capacity of the civ. Sounds pessimistic, but anyone care to bet how many centuries man will have radio? One, ten, a hundred, a thousand? Still nothing compared to the size of the universe.
So not only is the universe big, but it's OLD. A civ that lasted a million years would never know about us if was two million light years away and died tomorrow. And two million light years is practically next door.