This is about the Fermi paradox, guys, not the age of the universe.
Take it elsewhere.
In any case, here's my tentative opinion (worth what you paid to get it):
If there is intelligent life, it must be outside our galaxy. Any intelligent life that arose within our galaxy would have by now expanded to fill it; we have no evidence of such, so it is unlikely that intelligent life has arisen in our galaxy. Yes, I'm aware that this implies that the earth is 'special' an violates the [wiki]Copernican principle[/wiki], but I'm not too concerned about that.
And given the vast distances involved, I'm not sure if we'll ever be able to ascertain the existence of intelligent life beyond this galaxy.
There are a great many reasons that intelligent life could have arisen within the galaxy and not come to own it. Off the top of my head
- They didn't want to
- They didn't last long enough to develope interstellar travel.
- There weren't any planets within range for them to colonize
- They were wiped out by a supernova
- They came and went long before Earth was inhabitable
- They are too far away to have gotten here yet