Hi Aagio,
A guy friend of mine posts here alot and said it was an interesting group of people, so I started reading alot. Tonight I figured I would finally post something.
Stereotypes are stereotypes because they are true most of the time (although most do not like to admit that). That said, I don't know anything about the computer game civ.
Both confidence and looks are equally important. For me, honestly, looks determine whether I will sleep with a guy or not. But confidence contributes to "looks" because a man's body language can make him look more masculine and so look more attractive than he actually would be perceived as if he was just seen in a still photo for example.
Azzaman, I can assure you I am definitely a girl.
Women do not always like the 'bad' guys instead of the 'nice' ones. I tend to "like" good looking guys. It is rare to find nice guys who are also good-looking. This is because these generally do not have to try that hard to get women so they can "afford" to be jerks, so they are. The 'nice' guys are usually not that good looking so they try to compensate for this by being 'nice.' This is great for making guy friends..however if I am not physically attracted to the guy him being nice will not change that.
But I speak for myself. Many women are persuaded by money.
Fifty, who is this Narz? From the way you and Elta are talking about him he sounds like a pretty interesting guy...
Hopefully, he'll come around and post here soon so I can "meet' him!
Ziggy, even if a girl's ass is actually fat, she can always find some outfit to wear that will disguise it and make it look thin, or at least thinner. Therefore, that dress is making their ass look fatter than it does in other articles of clothing that she owns.
When it comes to sex or becoming "more than friends" if a girl says no it means "no." But for things regarding emotions...girls always like to talk about that even though they can be afraid of what they themselves might reveal if they do "talk about it." But they want to nonetheless.
Going to sleep, answer rest tommorrow.

Hope you find these helpful.