And our wedding took all of 15 minutes b/c we wanted to party. Was my wife handed over from her father with his authority? Nope. That's a silly critique.
Might not have be what happens often now, but that's the symbolism of the act, yes.
And our wedding took all of 15 minutes b/c we wanted to party. Was my wife handed over from her father with his authority? Nope. That's a silly critique.
@All The number of thing any two people fight over is money. So it shouldn't be surprising married folks do. My wife and I have no issues on that front. I get to handle it all, cause she figures I'm an economist so I better not stink at it.
@All The number of thing any two people fight over is money. So it shouldn't be surprising married folks do. My wife and I have no issues on that front. I get to handle it all, cause she figures I'm an economist so I better not stink at it.
Might not have be what happens often now, but that's the symbolism of the act, yes.
The average cost of a wedding in Canada and the US is ~$20,000. The average cost of a wedding in the UK seemed to be in the £10,000-15,000 range (15-23k US). These numbers don't include engagement ring / honeymoon, just the wedding / planning / reception.
This seems like an insane amount of money for what amounts to a fancy party.
Another thing to keep in mind about wedding bills: if you're going to have a bar at the reception, it's entirely possible to go buy a bunch of liquor wholesale, and just hire a bartender to serve it all (there's special licenses for these types of things). I've had friends who've pulled that manouevre, and they've made a few thousand dollars back - and the booze wasn't even expensive.
I understand there's ceremony, rights of passage, and the like. But I just can't fathom why any right of passage needs to cost as much as a down payment on a home (20% on a 100k starter home / condo for the newly married couple). Did anyone here on CFC have a traditional wedding? Was it worth it? Was there anything special about the day that changed what it meant to be married?
In Scotland, it's an excuse for various middle-aged male uncles to wear skirts, get drunk and tell rude jokes. I, for one, support the tradition, on the basis that I will one day be a middle-aged male uncle.
It's the skirts that tips it.I thought the Scottish didn't need excuses for that.
Big weddings as conspicuous consumption: You do it to show that you can.