Dismissing them as unimportant or trivial implies that because you think they're trivial, women should think they're trivial and quit complaining. I've tried to explain why this isn't a trivial thing, and run up against a blank wall of even more "I don't care, this doesn't matter" attitude.
Instead, how about accepting the word of people who have either been in this situation or really do understand how it could happen?
Instead, how about accepting the word of people who have either been in this situation or really do understand how it could happen?