I'm no stranger to busy-ness myself so I absolutely understand.Problem is that most of the oldtimers have gotten busy from university and work - it very much used to be a high school activity for many of us. So people have less time. At the same time, we have grown to like more complexity, more realism and more authenticity - or, as with Daft's stuff, it might be arcadey, but look at those well-crafted, crisp sprites! So it takes more time than usual to do. And with little activity, new blood tends not to stick.
I'm fantasizing about doing a Crusader Kings/A Song of Ice and Fire-like game at some point, where players do dynasties or characters in a fantasy setting, but I haven't started it yet exactly because I'm incredibly busy myself and don't want to just start it and have it die (as have happened a few times with my projects).
Do check out the Imperium Offtopicum subforum, it's a community similar in concept but with different people (and also kinda inactive at this point for the same reasons), stuff might pop up there too.
EDIT: Also btw, the community is still hungry for activity even if busy. Join our Discord and ask around, and if you're up for it and are able to pull off something that looks great, I'm sure you can gather a few players.
Sure I'll check all of that out! I'll try and join your Discord - what/who do I look for?