Hygro
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What is your overall philosophy for why you would date, or why you did date, or why you are dating, all condensed into these two exclusive options 
Dating: trying to find "the one" or trying to find yourself?
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Mise
isle of lucy
Finding a girl just like me.... scary thought.... 
skadistic
Caomhanach
I didn't try to find the one it just happened so I chose finding your self.
So women are tools, eh? That's essentialy what you just said, unless you mistyped your statement.
Harbringer
Your A One Flower Garden
I think initially I was looking for someone for me because I hadn't had any strong feelings for a girl in a while and I thought I was becoming emotionally numb and that was bad. i think to now that I have my moonlight I can reconcile with myself that ya im weird, but other people are to and im not the only one.
Mise
isle of lucy
In the sense that any relationship is a tool, yes. But you'd have to be pretty narcissistic to even liken a relationship to a tool...
Irish Caesar
Yellow Jacket
I wasn't looking for anything, I just stumbled into it.
Neither, I guess.
Neither, I guess.
What you are looking for, in part, is what sort of traits and habits you really want in a partner; then finding someone who has enough of them.
Prince_Imrahil
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It's trying to find the one who will be the most benefit to your self!!
GenMarshall
High Elven ISB Capt & Ghost Agent
Trying to find the one.
The problem is, I don't know where to start. I don't know anyplace where I would find a greater concentration of single women.
The problem is, I don't know where to start. I don't know anyplace where I would find a greater concentration of single women.
Prince_Imrahil
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CivGeneral said:
Most women are going to be single or in non-serious relationships, the chances of finding single women is not the problem in the least.
GenMarshall
High Elven ISB Capt & Ghost Agent
Well, I just don't know where to look.
skadistic
Caomhanach
I met mine at the grocery store. Being an import she asked me where to look for certain things. I gave her a tour of the store.
They are every where.
GenMarshall
High Elven ISB Capt & Ghost Agent
I don't know. I think my scanner is broke or just assume that every women are taken or already married.
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CivGeneral said:
Yup its you and your assumptions. Remember what they say about those. And anyways if you really want to get to know girls, just try to get to know girls. You'll find a lot doesnt have that special someone, and even if a few do, well, there's nothing wrong with getting to know a person for that sake alone.
GenMarshall
High Elven ISB Capt & Ghost Agent
Unfortunately, I just feel like my biological clock is ticking away (Many of my peers are in relationships or are married) and don't have time to just get to know girls. I just want a Girlfriend and a potential wife.
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See, while the whole affair is a selfish thing, by going about it completely selfish will get you nowhere. 'Ohh you're probably taken I have no time of day for you' attititude will ensure all the untaken girls have no time of day for you either. There's no biological clock ticking anywhere for you, you're a guy and will always be able to do your part of the offspring making if offspring is what you're worrying about, but if its just companionship, you're what, 24, still young, the thing is just getting to know people and being friends with people, all people, guys and girls regardless of relationship status, and by doing so you'll eventually find someone who wants to be more than just friends with you.
