Elegant ladies

[Pegasus_77]

Have you met any elegant ladies?And how is your relationship with them respectively ?

 

[Terxpahseyton]

I guess I once did when delivering pizza. She seemed like a total idiot. I kinda stigmatize all elegant ladies to be like that I am afraid. Though I wouldn't say "elegant lady" just because a woman dresses elegantly for some occasion. Rather, to me an elegant lady is a woman where elegant is not just the attribute of the cloths for a special evening but of the women itself. And that to me means being just painfully presumptuous. It to me means to live for a game of stupid prestige-games.
However, I am very much open to the idea that I am unjust / that there are notable exceptions.

 

[Quackers]

In Britain? No chance.
Only elegant ladies i've come across are foreign but they are bloody rare. How are we defining elegant?

 

[JollyRoger]

I thought Britain was infested with foreign women.

 

[Terxpahseyton]

I suppose most are not elegant.

 

[Kyriakos]

Well, the worst is an elegant (somatically) woman, who comes across as an idiot. Cause that is a sad sight And yes, i have met a couple of that category. I tried to think that in reality they were playing a role, or had other complexity, but yeah... some are just are not as gifted mentally.

Of course a great body is already beautiful, but by itself is doesn't really help much. I would never try to have a relationship with one of them.

Another issue is an elegant, and intelligent girl/woman, who behaves like a child. That too is annoying :/

 

[JollyRoger]

 

[Narz]

I like girls in cargo pants & tank tops, so hot! Elegance is a bad sign because it shows obsession with the superficial. I'd rather a woman who is too busy being smart & sensitive to otheres to worry about her appearance (beyond basic hygiene, keeping fit & a brazilian every month or two).

 

[Smellincoffee]

I've met a few society ladies in town, either through the library or church social functions. There aren't many left, I suppose, but some are cut from old, southern stock. It's always a pleasure to deal with that accent which is southerly, but refined.

 

[onejayhawk]

Have you met any elegant ladies?And how is your relationship with them respectively ?

I have. Our 25th anniversary is in ten days.

J

 

[Tahuti]

Elegance is a bad sign because it shows obsession with the superficial.

Not necessarily. Some women just like it that way.

 

[Pegasus_77]

In Britain? No chance.
Only elegant ladies i've come across are foreign but they are bloody rare. How are we defining elegant?

Pleasing and graceful in appearance or style.
For instance, they dont laugh out loud but manage a luscious smile;wear glamorous shirts and speak gently.

 

[Pegasus_77]

I suppose most are not elegant.

The girls who I deem elegant have the temperament of a poet, often talking about the literature or ideal lifestyle. Simply put, they value the quality of their lives, never or rarely settle for common but inferior things.
I wish I could keep one as my gf. I envision living with one of them would be like taking my time to enjoy a luscious life.

 

[Pegasus_77]

Another issue is an elegant, and intelligent girl/woman, who behaves like a child. That too is annoying :/

My fantasy girl.

 

[classical_hero]

I have. Our 25th anniversary is in ten days.

J

Excellent work. A cousin of mine just celebrated his 25th anniversary and they are in love with each other more than ever.

 

[onejayhawk]

My fantasy girl.

I once bought a keyring that said "90% Angel". I gave it to a girl named Angel.

J

 

[Kyriakos]

My fantasy girl.

Well, i happened to have known one of those for 3 years (as a sort of friend, though). While in my view she is elegant, and intelligent, she is also emotionally around the end of elementary school. She is engaged to a person i'd rather not say anything about. In fact i stopped speaking to her cause i got accused by that person that i was supposedly trying to steal his fiancee.

All in all a rather pitiful situation, and i felt sad for how people can react.

 

[Quackers]

Pleasing and graceful in appearance or style.
For instance, they dont laugh out loud but manage a luscious smile;wear glamorous shirts and speak gently.

Yeah I knew a woman like this. She was a foreigner, a Russian I think. She was always immaculately turned out on every single occassion. She didn't get drunk at every opportunity (unlike British women), she didn't try and act like a man either. She seemed to beam out positive feminine energies.
She was very good looking which added to the effect. I spoke to her a few times before lectures and she was friendly.

 

[Pegasus_77]

Well, i happened to have known one of those for 3 years (as a sort of friend, though). While in my view she is elegant, and intelligent, she is also emotionally around the end of elementary school. She is engaged to a person i'd rather not say anything about. In fact i stopped speaking to her cause i got accused by that person that i was supposedly trying to steal his fiancee.

All in all a rather pitiful situation, and i felt sad for how people can react.

Got engaged at the end of elementary school?you have gotta be kidding me.

 

[Valka D'Ur]

^ Kyriakos means the woman is has the emotional maturity of a 12-year-old (give or take a year, since I'm not sure what age elementary school ends in Greece).