You mean to take back what you wrote and re-phrase as "God doesn't act because he doesn't WANT to act"?
I suppose; God doesn't act because of the limits he imposes on himself. He imposes the limit of respect for free will, much as humans generally respect eachother's right to life. It probably tears him apart inside watching his children suffer, but he can't intervene, lest he violate his greatest gift to them.
...Of course, that doesn't stop him from cheating and planting suggestions for good in people's heads. He can try to push us all towards a better path... but at the same time, retain his respect for free will.
erhm, then why is the old Testament, the part of the bible you take all those themes of punishing-father-god concepts etc. from, so full of god killing his children in droves? In fact, killing ALL but a single family that one annoying time? Asking them to kill their OWN children?
Well I already explained why this is irrelevant in regards to me.
There you go again, shifting the goalposts. But again you show your god to be a sadist - evil against innocents and god does not protect them?
If any goalposts were shifted, it wasn't intentional.
Hm, basically, you're telling me that you make up your own god as you go along?
Well, this isn't my God per se, just what I think any Judeo-Christian God would be like. I'm not religious.
How, then, did you arrive at all the claims you make?
I take good concepts and expand upon them in my free time; God's policy of free will is the most noticeable one. Another would be that, in his kindness, he doesn't require belief in him to be welcomed into Heaven(you will, after all, believe in him right away upon entering, most likely); he merely requests you act good to get into it. An extension of this is that any sinner who genuinely repents and changes their mindset will be forgiven.
Why is there only one god,
There could be none, one, few, or many as far as I'm concerned. One god or group could be the source of life, or could be super-powerful spirits that grew over time. For the purposes of this debate, I use a monotheistic, Judeo-Christian God.
why do you call him/her/it by this name, why do you capitalize the word?
God is a term of convenience since it's an easily-identifiable entity. I could call him Chuck Norris, Shadow the Hedgehog, or Pikachu and it would still be a useful placeholder for simplicity's sake. But "God" is considered the most respectful and easily recognised title.

You sound awfully like the Judeo-Christian priests, but now you claim not to use the same source...
Jesus is supposed to be the closest to God.
But he did not write the Bible; it was written by men as easily corruptible as anyone else.
Furthermore, between schisms, changing interpretations, manipulation, and translations, the Bible should moreso be a source of inspiration, rather than any literal source.
One should think individually about God and come to their own conclusions; you have concluded he is either evil or limited in power, whereas I have concluded the horrors of mortal life are explained by his respect for free will.
Not to mention... why does an idea become more/less valid based on age or people endorsing it?
- how dare you predict what god would do?
Well, if you know a person's nature, you can make predictions. Especially if they are bound by their own personal restraints, as God is(in my opinion).
how do you know your god has not enslaved me?
You chose to not believe, did you not? You chose to question him when you could have submitted. You can choose what to eat for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, or choose not to eat at all. You have choices; real slaves do not. This is beyond what we humans could do; God could enslave the mind and soul itself.
how do you know a sadistic god isn't letting me do what I want because I am satan, and here to torment you?
Well, first, you're a human being, so chances are you're not Satan.
Second, the many views of Satan.
Third, you probably have a strong code of moral ethics, something any incarnation of evil could not have by definition.
Freedom of choice covers the grains of sand that are humans as much as Satan; chances are you're just like me, a human being with their own set of choices.
please show how the definition "sadist" includes slavery of all humans
Well, it would be very sadistic for God to turn you into say, a human sock puppet and make you kill your loved ones... all the while, you get to witness this going on but have no control over yourself. Slavery's a very nice way to enact widespread sadism.
You miss the point - god lets those who do not have free will suffer, from the free will of others and from other causes.
Who are these people who don't have free will? Even when cornered at gunpoint, you have freedom of action. You can sit there, or you can try and fight back.
We also need remember that God is likely more concerned with the eternal rather than the temporal. He desires us all to be good or, if evil, repent, so that we may enjoy eternal bliss with him in his domain.
And, on top of that, even when you are restrained physically, you are probably still in control of your mind and soul. Thoreau said it was the folly of government intimidation; it treats you as if you're solely flesh, blood and bone, not capable of comprehending your eternal soul and your mind, which can live on long after your body perishes. Evil humans, similarly, suffer this fatal flaw: they cannot comprehend that while they can crush a person into dust, they cannot crush their spirit.
Hey, why does that remind me of sadism? Letting people suffer for fun?
If God lets people suffer, I don't think he enjoys it one bit. He just has no choice but to painfully accept that he can't violate free will... He's erected a prison around himself.
wrong - ever seen a baby born of a chain-smoker? They go through withdrawal from their first moment after birth. And your god lets that happen so that the mother can exercise her free will?
I meant, unpunished by God.
God would not hold genetic issues against someone, I'm pretty sure. Only one's choices; the baby did not choose to be addicted, and so cannot be held accountable, at least until it is able to try and wean itself off the substance.
But hey, why stop there, let's look at other horrible things that happen to unborns that have nothing to do with the exercise of free will by anyone. How about all the various bad things that can lead to Siamese twins to die in untero? That's quite painful...... oh, but your god restrains himself - for what purpose exactly? So that innocents suffer?
This is easily explained by a Deist God whose main purpose is to set the natural laws in motion - those same things that cause birth defects, even when nobody did anything to the developing child. Just as how God may have started the Big Bang, but let things develop on their own from there.
As compensation for this cruelty, God won't hold things that weren't of your choosing against you. I also imagine any killed unborn goes automatically to Heaven... that or is reincarnated to give it the chance it was deprived of.
maybe - maybe not. Have you counted the malaria victims? the volcanic ash victims? the earthquake victims?
I could go on for ages just listing all the non-human-caused suffering totally out of proportion compared to the "sins" of those made to suffer.
Explained by a Deist God, who respects the actions of nature as much as the actions of humanity.
Now, as to why he'd do that, I don't have an answer; nature is not a person and cannot think, thus it cannot have free will. It does, however, have laws that govern its behavior, and God must respect these for some reason or another.