ParadigmShifter
Random Nonsense Generator
Funnily enough, one of my cousins put his relationship with God ahead of his relationship with his wife so much she ran off with a builder.
well, here's a quote then
"Wives, be submissive to your husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands." - Ephesians 5:21-24
Bold part for you to contemplate.17 Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is. 18 And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit, 19 speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord, 20 giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, 21 submitting to one another in the fear of God.[c]
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. 30 For we are members of His body,[d] of His flesh and of His bones. 31 “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”[e] 32 This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.
So are you saying that a believer would break a vow to their spouse for not graciously submitting to enforcing gracious submission?However, depending on how far she actually decides to go in her belief/faith, that whole 'I dont believe in God' thing can be a deal breaker....even after 20 years of marriage.
Thanks for that. We are both very happy with each other and how we treat each other. I am proud of her and she is proud of me.
I met my wife in 1977 in high school (we separated briefly, while she left with her parents overseas and likewise myself) and have know her ever since and wrote the occasional letter, until we got back together again more formally in early 1987.
We now support each other in whatever the other wants to do.
1 Corinthians 7:12
12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. 13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace. 16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
interesting that "subject to" is used for women and slaves... unfortunately I don't have my concordance any more so I can't see if the original word is the same
I know Christians claim the Bible isn't sexist, and bend over backwards trying to prove it, but it's just now so.
And men are higher in the hierarchy than women?
Well, in any partnership, someone has to have the final word. It doesnt mean the wife has to always agree with him or even like the decision, but, if he is truly being subjective himself to God, it will work itself out. Ultimately, its a trust issue. It does not mean that the husband can make demands of his wife without regard to her feelings. Any Christian husband who thinks that is doing it wrong.
Yet if she did, she would be breaking this:However, depending on how far she actually decides to go in her belief/faith, that whole 'I dont believe in God' thing can be a deal breaker....even after 20 years of marriage.
So it would seem like if she really is a believer and goes far in her belief, there should be no worry that the vow will be broken.1 Corinthians 7:12
12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her. 13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. 15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace. 16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
Which makes the prophets pretty fun reading - God treats his worshippers metaphorically as women. Sometimes as brides or brides/whores. It must cause some tension among more than a few when they realize their ordained role in the God-worshipper relationship.Well, in any partnership, someone has to have the final word. It doesnt mean the wife has to always agree with him or even like the decision, but, if he is truly being subjective himself to God, it will work itself out. Ultimately, its a trust issue. It does not mean that the husband can make demands of his wife without regard to her feelings. Any Christian husband who thinks that is doing it wrong.
Sounds like you don't need any helpThe main reason, I go is because I love my wife. But I also enjoy the singing and the general happy an friendly place a church is. While I don't believe in words or the sermons and rituals, I do believe in the sense of love that is in this place.
So for the time being, I will attend church and help my wife discover her beliefs in her own way.
Correct.Sounds like you don't need any help