Marrage and Surnames

[Urederra]

I like the Spanish way, mainly because is the one i am used too. And consists on no change at all for mom or dad.

And there is no poll option for that.

 

[McManus]

I voted for the radioactive monkey option since I really don't give two clicks for who takes on what surname... But my wife was very much of the opinion that she would take my surname, and seeing that it mattered to her, and was of no consequence to me, thats how we did it...

 

[Shadylookin]

I will keep mine, she can either take mine(preferably) or she can keep hers. I refuse to marry someone with a hyphenated name because it sounds like you married a lawfirm

 

[warpus]

The guy then should prepare and do the first of many concessions that make up marriage and cede the field to his lady.

Well, if you were smart, you'd use it as a bargaining chip.

"Sure, we'll go with your name, as long as you invite your best friend over for a little manage-de-trois every friday night for the next 5 years"