Well, a large part of the thinking in the less hand-holding approach in the Tavern is that we really should spend more time on the Civ forums, and agonise less over OT, or give people a bit more freedom there, seeing as it's not front of house anyway. I guess the necessary consequence of the Civ forums being more worth our time (this being a Civ site afterall), is that the OTs are less worth our time, but that's relatively speaking, and isn't saying that the OTs aren't worth any attention. It's simply stating what the purpose of the site is. I don't feel there's anything to reconcile, because it's not a matter of some people not being worth our time as much as others, but about forums. You are worth our time when posting in Civ2 just as much as anyone else posting in Civ2, and the fact that you also post in OT obviously doesn't change that. Similarly, someone who happens to post in one of the civ forums isn't worth more of our time in OT than someone who doesn't. If a feud is restricted to the Tavern, that's naturally less of a concern to us than if it spills over into the Civ forums, even if it's the same people. We're going to be less concerned about mediating disagreements in a forum with laxer rules where less moderator attention is the order of the day than in a forum with stricter rules where more moderator attention is supposed to be given.
This was all, of course, in response to the idea that moderators should take a more interventionist role in the Tavern. That's open to discussion, and we had the OT survey to discuss that and related issues. But as things stand, intensive moderator involvement in disputes between two posters would run contrary to the guiding principles of Tavern moderation.