Zardnaar
Deity
You've sidestepped the issue - again! You still haven't addressed your bizarre comment of, "You're still probably more likely to get punched out for not being gay." You're just rabbiting on about general social mores and standards in New Zealand. But you still - and this is the THIRD prompt - explained your bizarre comment, specifically.
What's hard about it. The penalty for doing it is likely to be worse, and there's just not that many of them. I could be completely wrong but would need to see some figures.