I met an awesome girl last night, whom I lost despite the fact that she really really (I mean really) liked me, because I was too much of a coward to fight the guy who was throwing the party*, who also happened to like her (and to know her for like.. 2 years), and who was obviously and annoyingly trying to get everyone to stay away from her through some of the most stupid ways ever imagined by humankind (like pushing chairs around and literally kicking his own guests out of the room just because they were somewhat near her - why did you invite them if you want them to stay far away from this girl, while you're always around her? What this means is that you basically invited them in order to ask them to stay away from you!

), which he managed in the end, at 6 AM or so, as she was the last guest to stay. From what I've heard from the last person, she might have accepted his offer of "sleeping over at his place" tonight, since Köln is 25 minutes away from Düsseldorf with the train, and she cant possibly take a morning train, since, you know, she's tired.

And please don't tell me: "then again, how can you blame the guy, since the girl played along?" - I'm talking about the level of "butt"holeness that the guy displayed, literally pushing me away from people I wanted to stay with and doing anything to get me and my flatmates out of his party, although we made the whole atmosphere there worth staying, and
everyone left within 5 minutes of us leaving. Except for the girl, of course. Who happened to really like me. Craaap...
I should really grow some balls for these situations. I can easily be a "butt"hole myself, but if I am in someone's house, I have a stupid feeling of... how should I put this... duty of respect, until a certain point. Some self-improvement is in order here.
My only consolation tonight is that maybe it would have been bad to actually succeed with this awesome 25-year-old French girl, since she knows every single one of my flatmates and their friends so well, and for such a long time, that it would have been awkward at the end, regardless of what happens. But that's a rather pitiful consolation, TBH.
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* (note: I met her 5-6 hours before the party, as she came to my flat to visit my flatmates, whom she knows for a long time)
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@DT: That's terrible to hear.

Hope you cope all right with everything.