Parents get to decide whether a kid happens at all, though given that recent ruling on a divorced woman using a frozen egg to get pregnant post divorce against the man's will still receiving child support maybe plural isn't appropriate.
Regardless, parents are almost certainly going to treat crippling genetic diseases (especially the really bad stuff that will kill < 5 years after much suffering for the child) in their kids before they're born once this technology is available. It will flow naturally from there. The kid doesn't get a say for the same reason the kid doesn't get a say on what exact foods they eat or where they live as minors.
I realize all of that, but that doesn't make it less screwed up, no? there will never be a world where a child decides whether or not he/she's born and to whom, because frankly that's utterly impossible from any standpoint whatsoever. but that doesn't make the whole ordeal less unjust. being brought into existence is always fundamentally unfair, is my point.
1 I am objectively less capable than well over 90% of the population. My absolute best is possibly less than a healthy individual's worst. Someone who is missing limbs is still more capable than I am.
I had the misfortune of knowing health before becoming this way.
2 The question of "how would anyone decide that for anyone besides themself" is one that's bankrupt on delivery since fetuses have no opinions and are thus incapable of consenting or withholding consent.
3 I do believe that it's irresponsible and somewhat reprehensible to knowingly bring in life that will be disadvantaged, or is likely to be disadvantaged, especially when there is such a large population of children that could be adopted or fostered. And you'll note that I said my preference would be for the defect to be repaired instead of having the fetus aborted. With defects that occur post-birth, well, that's that. I don't think they "shouldn't be allowed to walk the Earth".
I wrote up a big post and then deleted all of it. such a difficult to talk about topic. whenever I want to express my feelings towards an issue I struggle with a "rational" counterpoint inside my head.
1 some people may feel crippled by being "less capable" than their peers, others might not. with physical disabilities, like a missing limb for example, it's pretty hard to argue. so I won't. that's not the hill I want to die on. with mental "disabilities" it's a different argument imho. calling a different way of thinking "wrong" or simply lackluster can only be done if you artifically "normalize" another way of thinking. there can never be an objectively correct mindset, and therefore I think calling, for example, autism a disability is absolutely wrong, and genetically selecting against autistic children is just as wrong. having autism might be a big disadvantage, especially in a competitive capitalist society, but it's not an inherently worse frame of mind or way of thinking.
2 I completely agree, but refer to my answer to TMIT. just stating what seems to me to be an obvious philosophical dilemma.
3 difficult. I agree wholeheardetly on adoption, but am torn on the other point you're making (bold). after all we live in a society that is by its very nature competitive. to me, capitalism boils down to "be productive or starve", which means that people who have an inherent disadvantage in said systems are screwed from birth. and obviously it's horrible to bring someone into this world who is told that he has to either compete or die, but who has the entire game rigged against him from the moment he sees the light. I do believe that if we lived in a different society that this would be less of an issue, but frankly we don't.
just thinking and typing gets me really riled up. so sorry to anyone if I don't respond to posts made towards me in this or the boomer thread. I don't know what it is, but lately I've been getting much too invested in arguments that happen inside my head. debating on the internet just isn't good for some people I think, and I'm one of them.