I think most of what you say is valid though, but no need to get *that* upset.
Nationalism has a thing of doing that, it just happens being Vikings is a part of our nationalism. I would also think that many would link 'germanic' with Germany, who Scandinavians certainly do not wish to be aligned with.
But to be on topic and to aid a little in the project - I will give some ideas for a Danish UU.
I will try to keep at the 1100-Today period, seeing we do not wish to be mixed up with the Vikings, seemingly.
Frigate - Perhaps a cheaper version of these. Seeing we have always had a powerful fleet, even when we were overrun back in 1800-something by the Germans, we beat them with our largely superior fleet (Not that it helped against their artillery and rifles).
Pikeman - Shortly after we had completed a conversion to the Catholic faith we Danes went on a crusade into Estonia. If I remember right that is also where we got our flag that according to our bit nationalistic lore was a gift from God himself (Probably just a Templar banner, but if something weird happens some hundred years ago you blame God). Our army consisted mainly of rag-tag soldiers taken from all over the country. So I would replace the Pikeman with a militia type unit, one we can get earlier perhaps have some odd bonuses too.
I'm mostly for the frigate I might add. As for leaders I would say this:
King Valdemar II the Victorious (Valdemar Sejr)
Conqueror of Estonia.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Valdemar_the_Victorious
Margaret the I
A grand politician, she made the Kalmar Union.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Margaret_I_of_Denmark
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kalmar_union
Wikipedia since I cannot be arsed to write up all their life.
A unique building - Herregårde? I think that would roughly translate into manor, although I am not really sure. Wait, actually. I think I got a better one:
'Andelsmejeri'(Mejeri = Dairy-work) or 'Andelsslagteri'(Slagteri = Slaughter) ('Co-operative society' would be the English word) - Basically it is a load of farmers banding together and buying the machinery they need to produce butter and bacon of proper quality. You see during the industrialism it was the farmers that bought our products since they were able to make some good money by selling their own products to England. At the same time they expanded the Andels-corporations to make schools, libraries, etc. Basically this exact movement brought Denmark from a sorry backwards farming state to a wealthy industrialized nation.
What exactly it should do or not do is up to you. But I suggest you replace the factory with this one - seeing those things did not have a near as great impact on the Danish history.
Hope I at least contributed with something, also I cannot be sure everything is absolutely correct. Take it with some salt.