Right, isn't that what I said? You can't control where your body puts fat, it just stores it wherever it wants to. So excess beer calories don't go to the belly while pizza calories go to the butt or whatever, which makes beer belly a misnomer.
Women typically gain there while men retain more belly fat. You just have to lose fat overall to reduce it. Keep protein high, eat a slight calorie deficit and do some resistance training, any kind like body weight or free weights or machines or resistance bands, doesn't matter. But if you work your muscles for strength and feed them with protein it encourages your body to burn fat in a deficit so most of the weight you lose is fat.
Most plant proteins are incomplete. Of course vegetarians don't solely eat beans for protein, I wasn't trying to imply such, but a vegetarian probably needs a more varied diet than a meat eater.
What do you guys think about whole grains? I see a lot of articles talking about how westerners don't eat enough whole grains, but I have greatly reduced carbs as a means of calorie control. Not intentionally swearing off carbs, but when you keep protein high and calories low it's just a byproduct. Typical day for me is yogurt for breakfast, salad with vinaigrette and sardines, tuna, or grilled chicken breast or thighs for lunch. Only carbs are milk sugars. Dinner might have a hamburger bun or taco shell or tortilla or a small bit of pasta, but I almost never eat bread, cereal, oats or rice. I eat very little fruit too, more of a vegetable guy.