(sidenote: a homeowners' association can legally order people to have a flowerbed? In the land of the free?)
They can legally order just about anything, no matter how unreasonable, unless it's extremely illegal. And even then it's hard to get it stopped, fixed, and the perpetrators dealt with.
One of my lottery fantasies is to own an apartment building that mandates that all tenants
must have a cat (with proper checks to make sure they're properly cared for, of course).
Yes, well… here I've seen a marked rise in the proportion of apartments and houses owned by individual landlords, but an actual legally incorporated company dedicated to owning residential real estate is pracically non-existent.
The company that owns the building I live in has buildings all across Canada. That's why the people staffing the 24-hour call centre have to be bilingual. You never know when your after-hours call about plumbing or some security matter could get re-routed to a call centre in Quebec. How that works is the Quebec agent would email the on-call staff here in Red Deer (or vicinity; one time the after-hours maintenance guy who came here had to come in from Innisfail and was quite peeved about it). It gets even more bizarre if said on-call person happens to be the guy who lives on the floor above me.
My dad is allergic to shellfish like that. Can't eat it, can't eat anything that's been prepared with it, can't eat anything that's been prepared in a place that touched it without being washed. This is why I never had lobster, shrimp, or any other shellfish growing up.
Have you tried any of them since then? It would be a shame to miss out on them.
I seem to have lost a word.
Isn't there a word for sports cars and the like that captures that they are high-maintenance because they are high-performance? They need lots of fine-tuning to keep them operating at their peak, but the owners bother with doing that fine tuning because the peak performance is worth it.
It's not finicky, but like finicky, I think the word in question can be applied to people as well as machines, i.e. that when you call a car this word, you're personifying the car.
Persnickety.
Do people prefer lots of smaller gifts or one large gift?
As Synsensa says, "Yes."
Actually, it depends on the person and situation. With a lot of small gifts, there's a greater chance of there being one that the recipient likes. But a bigger one could be something they've been wanting but can't afford themselves.
I legitimately have something planned as a gift for CFC but it depends on a particular rocket launching in the future. It's beginning to look uncertain that this particular rocket will ever launch so I am unsure I'll get to give my gift. That I'm even mentioning it is a sign that I don't think it is going to happen. I've been working on this surprise for a while...
But that's just a coincidence. I was curious how other people felt about gifts because my birthday is coming up so it got me thinking of what I want.
Hm... you're going to name a starship after us? The U.S.S. CivFanatics?
He's going to blow up the moon and save us from the lycanthropic curse I assume we all share.
No blowing up of the Moon, 'k?

Besides Jupiter, it's the only celestial object I can still reliably see. (hopefully the surgery will help my night vision so I can actually do some stargazing if I ever get somewhere that has no light pollution)
Is it definitively known what the Spades symbolize in cards?
I read a few different/conflicting things. Eg that they are supposed to be a bell and thus symbolize farmers (apparently in germanic cultures), or that they represent a cane (latinate). Maybe the cane also can refer to lower class, though.
Also, what does the Jack symbolize? Again from reading some etymology it seems to mean (at least in italian) either an infantry man (fante is of the same root) or an infant/child. Btw, apparently "infant" means "voiceless" (?) - referring to infants not yet being able to speak.
A different theory is that it comes from spanish (the fante part) as infanteria, and thus is tied to a prince's bodyguard. (ps: it can also mean servant, eg in the french name, valet).
There is a rather nice greek expression: "he showed up like the Jack of Spades", meaning out of nowhere, and being unwelcome. Possibly the expression originates in powerful properties of the card in specific games.
"The Queen of Hearts, she baked some tarts
All on a summer's day.
The Knave of Hearts stole the tarts and took them clean away.
The King of Hearts called for the tarts and beat the knave full...
(sorry, I don't remember the rest of it - but the Jack is also known as the Knave)
I tend to think of the Jack as a prince.
I used dish soap and that got rid of a lot of the blue. Now my hands smell like lemons.
Regular soap should lessen that.