Farm Boy
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This is more important that any of the emotionally laden disgust about burning human remains. If the hospital goes against the parent's wishes or misleads them (for instance if they are led to believe they'll get some sort of ceremony) then that's an outrage.
I would simply caution that one could feel grossly mislead without specific lies or promises(like a ceremony). Simply acting in an unexpected manner without specifying it can be enough. You shouldn't need disclaimers in hospital fine print that they won't flush the remains of your miscarriage down the toilet, but only after it's already been used so as to conserve water. You shouldn't need disclaimers at funeral homes advertising that you don't provide rental services to the local chapter of necrophiliacs.