What views do you currently hold that will look outdated to your grandchildren?

They raised their children to have awareness of these issues, did they not? I just don’t think we should dismiss (not saying you are) the contributions made by our predecessors. They also had their own issues to deal with, so I’m trying just to view it with the perspective of those people had at that time.

And we’re back around to the topic! :)
 
They raised their children to have awareness of these issues, did they not? I just don’t think we should dismiss (not saying you are) the contributions made by our predecessors. They also had their own issues to deal with, so I’m trying just to view it with the perspective of those people had at that time.

And we’re back around to the topic! :)

Definitely. I view it as an iterative process. The less resistant the parents, the better the children can do. For older people, that's simply the way it was. They may have wanted it different, so they didn't act as their parents did, and that allowed their kids to continue the process. I don't think Gen Z could do what they do if their Gen X/Millennial parents weren't more flexible than their Boomer/Greatest Generation parents, and so on.
 
Political views aside, plenty of words that are currently innocuous will be seen as funny, lewd, or offensive by our grandkids. Some past examples are "we had a gay time", "I saw Dick the other day", or "air resistance [r-word] the plane's speed."
 
Political views aside, plenty of words that are currently innocuous will be seen as funny, lewd, or offensive by our grandkids. Some past examples are "we had a gay time", "I saw Dick the other day", or "air resistance [r-word] the plane's speed."

"Having a gay time," was already lewd when I was a kid, and that was in the '80's. It was rare that the opening credits "The Flintstone's," re-runs could finish in my childhood without someone guffawing at the last line, "we'll have a gay old time!."
 
Comedy has always changed and evolved though. Comedy in the 80s and 90s was vastly different to comedy that came before it. Someone could like Monty Python, but very much dislike Stewart Lee. Someone could like Stewart Lee, but very much dislike Louis CK. Is it possible that you simply don't like modern comedy on its own merit? The jokes people tell these days aren't funny to you because your sense of humour simply differs from most modern comedians? I don't think there needs to be a nefarious cultural hegemony that is actively preventing comedy from catering to your tastes as completely or satisfactorily as it once did: comedy has always been one of the first movers in art and entertainment, and it is entirely possible that it has moved away from your personal sense of humour of its own accord. Is it possible that an 80 year old John Cleese just finds it very difficult to write jokes that appeal to the tastes of students in their late teens/early 20s, and that's why he doesn't get as many gigs at universities as he did in the 1970s?
It is definitely possible that comedy has changed, I will certainly concede that point, but I still find modern humour funny in most cases. The problem that I find with it is that a lot of it has been "sanitized" to conform to today's "don't insult me" sensibilities. We're so busy trying not to offend anyone that we wind up with milquetoast comedy. And that is really a shame.
 
"Having a gay time," was already lewd when I was a kid, and that was in the '80's. It was rare that the opening credits "The Flintstone's," re-runs could finish in my childhood without someone guffawing at the last line, "we'll have a gay old time!."
My grandparents weren't in their 20s in the 80s
 
Political views aside, plenty of words that are currently innocuous will be seen as funny, lewd, or offensive by our grandkids. Some past examples are "we had a gay time", "I saw Dick the other day", or "air resistance [r-word] the plane's speed."
Simpsons did it! :lol:

 
It was, but there's a sizable population of late Gen X/Boomer/Greatest Generation people who outright did nothing during the Civil Rights Movement and the like, not even the equivalent of a hashtag back then.
Curse those lazy Gen Xers for doing nothing before they were born! That's why they are known for their apathy I guess.
 
Curse those lazy Gen Xers for doing nothing before they were born! That's why they are known for their apathy I guess.
Hey. Reading comprehension doesn't seem your forte, so I'll help you out here and bold and underline something cool in the line you quoted.

"It was, but there's a sizable population of late Gen X/Boomer/Greatest Generation people who outright did nothing during the Civil Rights Movement and the like, not even the equivalent of a hashtag back then."

Please let me know if you need any further assistance.
 
Hey. Reading comprehension doesn't seem your forte, so I'll help you out here and bold and underline something cool in the line you quoted.

"It was, but there's a sizable population of late Gen X/Boomer/Greatest Generation people who outright did nothing during the Civil Rights Movement and the like, not even the equivalent of a hashtag back then."

Please let me know if you need any further assistance.

The '90's, which were my high school/college/young adult years, along with the '80's, were quite an ebb in civil rights-style activism compared to the '60's and '70's before them and the last 10-15 years after them, you have to admit. The late '80's/early '90's was the period of demonstrations and activism that brought down the Warsaw Pact Communist Regimes, as well as the ANC bringing down the National Party Apartheid regime in South Africa, but those were different kettles of fish in different parts of the world.
 
People made jokes in 3000 BC that we might not find remotely funny nowadays, and they don't even have to be "edgy". They could just be based in a context that's completely inane to us now. It was a different time. Different hardships. Different jokes!
Exactly. Lots of people find Shakespeare boring, and to some extent I can agree. I nearly fell asleep during a performance of Macbeth, for instance, and that was when I was part of a group of SCA people doing front-of-house work in medieval costume (ticket taking, ushering, handing out programs, etc.; the compensation was that we were allowed to see the play for free).

But other Shakespeare plays? Some of them are hilarious, and I remember starting to read one of the Roman ones (don't recall offhand if it was Julius Caesar or Antony and Cleopatra), and started giggling over the humorous exchanges some of the characters had in a couple of scenes.

The reason a lot of people don't get Shakespearean humor is because if you only read the play it's hard to imagine the action that goes with it. These plays were meant to be seen, not read, and for the most part the intended audience was common people, who would not have an academic sense of humor. That's why some of it falls flat to modern audiences. Different world, different social norms, different humor.

Most teens and young adults today have done more social activism than the older generations have done in their lifetimes, and are facing a dire future that we'll be too dead to worry about. But because they don't like jokes about minorities, they're sheltered and morons? Sure. I think there's another demographic here facing mental weakness.
ORLY? :huh: So women marching, getting arrested, force-fed, and beaten just for wanting the same voting rights as men is somehow less than what the average teenage girl or 20-something woman does now? Most of them don't seem to give a damn for their voting rights, and couldn't care less about it. They use pathetic excuses as the reason for not voting, and then they whine and complain when the government doesn't do what they want. Well, they had their chance to make their wishes known at the polling station, and it's not true that voting is pointless. The federal election of 1993 is proof of that - where just a few votes in several ridings made all the difference as to whether the Official Opposition was the right-wing party (Canadian Alliance, that later hijacked the Progressive Conservatives to give us the Conservative Party of Canada - that hybrid thing run by Stephen Harper during the Dark Decade) or the Bloc Quebecois (imagine that - for a short while, Her Majesty's Loyal Opposition was a pack of Quebec separatists, dedicated to pulling the country apart).

If even a dozen people had stayed home on voting day in some of those ridings, it would have completely changed which party became the Opposition. And that does matter.

I'm not saying that current issues don't matter. Clearly they do. But don't you sit there and say that older generations didn't do anything. I'll admit that my own efforts in joining a peace march in the early '80s was mostly symbolic, as was the further efforts of that group. But there is a plaque in City Hall Park that commemorates our efforts. My own later efforts focus on rights for the disabled, as I've run across so much casual dismissal in recent years - thoughtless crap that shows that governments just don't consider how their policies affect us. Being told that "oh, we never considered that" or "oh, that funding isn't available" when it's a matter of access or equal treatment is not funny.

I only got to vote in the provincial election last year because on a rare good day for going out, I made it to the Returning Office and informed them that I would not leave until they let me cast a ballot (they didn't know what to do with a disabled person who wanted to vote there and the reason wasn't that I would be out of town on voting day). Trying to spin excuses at me didn't work - back when I did have the energy for a full day's work (it's at least 14 hours, with a couple of bathroom breaks), I was a Deputy Returning Officer and knew my rights and what procedure they were supposed to follow.

So tell me - how many of these teenagers and young adults are advocating for disabled voters' rights? There are people in Canada who are surprised that we have the right to vote.

I am the target demographic for these edgy comedians and dark jokes. But I also realize it's a niche category of comedy, and a population that's starting to care more about punching down on marginalized or helpless groups will naturally be more resistant to humour that punches down.
If you mean the disabled demographic, we couldn't be further from agreement. I get enough offensive crap thrown at me, and thoughtless treatment, that I really don't need it to be normalized in some obnoxious comedian's "humor".

I should not need to tell people not to move my walker without my permission. Yet I do. If I do give them permission, I should not need to tell them to treat it with care - it's what makes all the difference as to whether I can safely leave the apartment - yet I do. This latter situation is why there are now security cameras in the disabled transit buses here. One of the drivers treated my walker roughly, broke the basket part of it, and then got verbally abusive to me when I protested. When I got home I called the transit supervisor, told them what happened, and then pointed out behavior like that was not likely to be limited to just me - how many other passengers had he treated with rough handling of their mobility devices and verbal abuse? It's a fact that many people are afraid to speak up, for fear of being banned from this service. The supervisor thanked me for reporting this, they would discuss it - and I was later informed that cameras would be installed in the buses. And thank goodness for that.
The speakers on campus stuff. Some of it's a publicity stunt. Like Ben Shapiro at Berkley, I mean come on. People like that want to be canceled. They're looking for the most liberal colleges specifically hoping to get protested so they can appear to be edgey. Ann Coulter went and tried to do the same thing a month later and she just looked desperate. Ben's spoken at plenty of colleges so has Ann and a lot of other "canceled" speakers.
I remember the fuss Ann Coulter made when she wanted to make a speech on a campus in one of the Canadian universities. She was informed that part of her intended speech constituted hate speech, which is illegal here, and she would have to alter her speech.

Next thing, she's ranting and whining about how she's American and has freedom of speech and should be able to say whatever she wants.

Not in foreign countries, she doesn't.
 
ORLY? :huh: So women marching, getting arrested, force-fed, and beaten just for wanting the same voting rights as men is somehow less than what the average teenage girl or 20-something woman does now? Most of them don't seem to give a damn for their voting rights, and couldn't care less about it. They use pathetic excuses as the reason for not voting, and then they whine and complain when the government doesn't do what they want. Well, they had their chance to make their wishes known at the polling station, and it's not true that voting is pointless. The federal election of 1993 is proof of that - where just a few votes in several ridings made all the difference as to whether the Official Opposition was the right-wing party (Canadian Alliance, that later hijacked the Progressive Conservatives to give us the Conservative Party of Canada - that hybrid thing run by Stephen Harper during the Dark Decade) or the Bloc Quebecois (imagine that - for a short while, Her Majesty's Loyal Opposition was a pack of Quebec separatists, dedicated to pulling the country apart).

If even a dozen people had stayed home on voting day in some of those ridings, it would have completely changed which party became the Opposition. And that does matter.

I'm not saying that current issues don't matter. Clearly they do. But don't you sit there and say that older generations didn't do anything. I'll admit that my own efforts in joining a peace march in the early '80s was mostly symbolic, as was the further efforts of that group. But there is a plaque in City Hall Park that commemorates our efforts. My own later efforts focus on rights for the disabled, as I've run across so much casual dismissal in recent years - thoughtless crap that shows that governments just don't consider how their policies affect us. Being told that "oh, we never considered that" or "oh, that funding isn't available" when it's a matter of access or equal treatment is not funny.

I only got to vote in the provincial election last year because on a rare good day for going out, I made it to the Returning Office and informed them that I would not leave until they let me cast a ballot (they didn't know what to do with a disabled person who wanted to vote there and the reason wasn't that I would be out of town on voting day). Trying to spin excuses at me didn't work - back when I did have the energy for a full day's work (it's at least 14 hours, with a couple of bathroom breaks), I was a Deputy Returning Officer and knew my rights and what procedure they were supposed to follow.

So tell me - how many of these teenagers and young adults are advocating for disabled voters' rights? There are people in Canada who are surprised that we have the right to vote.

That reply was poorly phrased. In the context I assumed it'd be obvious that I didn't mean all older people, but the wording in a vacuum suggests what you're defending against. Sorry. I hope my follow-up replies elaborated on what I meant.

Not many advocate for disabled voters. Most seem content with us being edged out of society. The nature of our disadvantage makes our plight difficult to resist against. As you mention, women's rights gained steam when women said enough was enough. Same with gay rights, black rights, etc. They all needed allies from other demographics, but the primary change had to come in the form of the affected demographic getting angry enough. Since we're disabled, we can't march. We simply don't have the energy or ability to constantly, perpetually advocate and pressure. We're helpless, in a "force change" way, and thus reliant on the whims of others. Things that help us are usually indirect. Not sure what the solution to that is beyond hoping that, once we get all the other demographics squared away, they won't forget about us.

If you mean the disabled demographic, we couldn't be further from agreement. I get enough offensive crap thrown at me, and thoughtless treatment, that I really don't need it to be normalized in some obnoxious comedian's "humor".

No, I mean the demographic that likes crass, offensive humour. Most disabled jokes aren't really all that funny. At least, I haven't heard many that were well crafted. Video comedy is easier; I've seen some hilarious skits on TikTok.

Like this one.

Spoiler :
 
That reply was poorly phrased. In the context I assumed it'd be obvious that I didn't mean all older people, but the wording in a vacuum suggests what you're defending against. Sorry. I hope my follow-up replies elaborated on what I meant.

Not many advocate for disabled voters. Most seem content with us being edged out of society. The nature of our disadvantage makes our plight difficult to resist against. As you mention, women's rights gained steam when women said enough was enough. Same with gay rights, black rights, etc. They all needed allies from other demographics, but the primary change had to come in the form of the affected demographic getting angry enough. Since we're disabled, we can't march. We simply don't have the energy or ability to constantly, perpetually advocate and pressure. We're helpless, in a "force change" way, and thus reliant on the whims of others. Things that help us are usually indirect. Not sure what the solution to that is beyond hoping that, once we get all the other demographics squared away, they won't forget about us.



No, I mean the demographic that likes crass, offensive humour. Most disabled jokes aren't really all that funny. At least, I haven't heard many that were well crafted. Video comedy is easier; I've seen some hilarious skits on TikTok.

Like this one.

Spoiler :

Was watching Frankie Boyle last night.
He is a Scottish comedian who makes jokes that many find offensive.

He made some interesting points.
He argued that a comedian being offensive is an artistic license issue rather than a free speech issue.
Being PC in normal life is part of the politeness that makes society run.
People watch comedians to hear the normally unsayable, to be shocked.

He also gave an example of a couple of jokes he had made that got a lot of complaints.
They were about the paraolympics but the butt of the jokes wasn't disabled people, it was Saudi Arabia in one and the UK in the other.
 
Was watching Frankie Boyle last night.
He is a Scottish comedian who makes jokes that many find offensive.

He made some interesting points.
He argued that a comedian being offensive is an artistic license issue rather than a free speech issue.
Being PC in normal life is part of the politeness that makes society run.
People watch comedians to hear the normally unsayable, to be shocked.

He also gave an example of a couple of jokes he had made that got a lot of complaints.
They were about the paraolympics but the butt of the jokes wasn't disabled people, it was Saudi Arabia in one and the UK in the other.

Does Saudi Arabia have a paraolympic team?
 
I was talking with my wife about a year ago about our grandparents, and how backward and weird some of their views were. Things like their views on marriage and the role of women, race, homosexuality, even how one behaves at work and what sort of behaviour is acceptable from a boss vs what sort of behaviour an employee has a right to challenge. On all of these things, my grandparents had very outdated views that seem at best peculiar and anachronistic, and at worst outright disgusting to me.

It was in discussing this that, just over a year ago, we decided to become vegetarian, as we could both foresee that our grandchildren will look at us eating dead animals, raised in horrible conditions on some industrial farm, injected with various chemicals, killed en mass, and responsible for a huge chunk of our global warming, and imagining them not forgiving us for it.

I often wonder what other views I hold that, in 50 years time, would look as outdated as my grandparents forcing my uncle to chaperone my parents on their first date. I, for example, bought a diamond ring, proposed to and married my wife, and we have a relationship that is well within the parameters of an orthodox, heteronormal Western relationship. My wife even took my surname! I can already hear my grandchildren's gasps echo across time and space.

Obviously conservative-leaning people can play along too but I'd imagine the entire premise of this question subverts the primary thesis of conservativism itself. I would in any case be very interested to hear responses to this either from conservatives personally, or that are based in a conservative ideology!

I hope the fact that you condone pedophilia will be outdated by your own children.

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That was a bump.

I’m just sitting here thinking about all the views I have now that are considered socially unacceptable. Theoretical offspring won’t even have the chance to be offended.
 
I hope the fact that you condone pedophilia will be outdated by your own children.

Just FYI, Pedophilia refers to the sexual attraction to children and is both totally legal and condoned by most healthy members of society. Pedophilia does not refer to the act of sexually engaging a minor. Most pedophiles seek treatment on their own and are regular, respectable, but neurodivergent, people. Most child abusers are not clinically pedophiles, but rather heterosexual males.

Also, there weirdly was nothing in Mise's post about endorsing pedophilia, so maybe you should reference that specific post of his.
 
Just FYI, Pedophilia refers to the sexual attraction to children and is both totally legal and condoned by most healthy members of society. Pedophilia does not refer to the act of sexually engaging a minor. Most pedophiles seek treatment on their own and are regular, respectable, but neurodivergent, people. Most child abusers are not clinically pedophiles, but rather heterosexual males.

Also, there weirdly was nothing in Mise's post about endorsing pedophilia, so maybe you should reference that specific post of his.

God, no. It's a death sentence without the dying. No society on this planet accepts it or tries to holistically and humanely treat it.

Hey, that's a thing for the thread. How we treat pedophiles is going to be an embarrassment a few generations from now. I mean, it already is, but once they change gears, how we approached it will look particularly damning.
 
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