In fact, citizens of East Germany had standard of living decidedly superior to those of USSR.I'm sorry that the situation was so bad for you, I hope that you and your family found much better lives wherever you moved to!
I understand that this would be a big turn off to Communism. Forgive my assumption, but did you happen to move from Eastern Europe, maybe Poland or East Germany?
If you did, then I agree that the situations of those countries was really bad. But that was more a result of the poverty imposed on those countries by the big bad Soviet bear. They were essentially forced to become imperial outposts and buffer zones of a massive totalitarian dictatorship, and they never even got to experience the revolution.
This.It was a socialist country ruled by communist government.
As far as I know, neither Polish nor Soviet governments ever claimed Poland and USSR were communist countries nor that their citizens live under Communism. Building Communism was declared goal, not achieved state.
Listen to the fish, guys, he knows his stuffDictatorship is actually the exception in Marxist-Leninist regimes. The predominant form of government is one-party oligarchy, ranging from the very collective forms of leadership seen in post-Maoist China to the strongman systems seen in Yugoslavia or Cuba. Stalin and Mao's dictatorial periods only lasted maybe a decade or so, and were the outcome of long periods of factional strife within an established one-party system, and both returned to the oligarchical norm after the deaths of the dictator. Pol Pot was arguably a dictator, but his regime was short-lived even by revolutionary standards; the greater part of Campobdia's history as a Marxist-Leninist state was a one-party oligarchy after the "people's republic" model. Ceausescu's Romania, the Kim dynasty in North Korea, and maybe Hoxha's Albania represent the only really enduring dictatorship among the Marxist-Leninist states, and all of those are regimes note for their departure from the norms of the Marxist-Leninist states, both domestically and internationally- to put it bluntly, how bloody weird they were, even by the loose standards of revolutionary dictatorships.
Now, that's not to defend these regimes. An oligarchy can be ever bit as destructive as a dictatorship. But it's important to remember that the Marxist-Leninist regimes represent a particular type of regime- an allied cluster of types, really- specific to a particular period of world history, rather than a particular iteration of some abstract transhistorical spirit of "Totalitarianism". Presenting your opponents as evil incarnate is bad politics, bad history, and bad for your brain.

Actually, Stalinist architecture is pretty nice:Communist architecture is bad because it is an inept imitation of Western architecture. All the architectural evils of Moscow are found in prototype in London or Paris.
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I've lived in a house like this and I've nothing to complain about. Nice sturdy masonry there, you won't hear your neighbors no matter what they are up to.
This.So the redistribution of land (and income?) is the major difference between capitalism and communism?
I'm actually not against a more even distribution of wealth. I do not think that a huge concentration of wealth is a good thing for society, and I would be willing to consider measures to counter this (taking pages from Piketty's playbook, more agrressive taxation and a wealth tax). But I think that this can be implemented in a capitalist society, and I have no faith in neo-communists. I'm not sold on the ideology, as it exists in the dreams of the communists, and I definitely am not sold on the neo-communists ability to put theory into practice.