It occurs to me that I have neglected poor betazed for a while here. I will attempt to rectify that now.
betazed said:
Does every agreement between two individuals have to be a written contract? Have we stooped so low or become so pedantic/unreliable that we cannot be taken for our words and actions? Why should not a night of consensual sex (and yes drunken sex too, so long as the drink was not forced down the gullet using mechanical contraptions) lead to responsibilites? And failed birth control too. Every sex act using birth control means that the chances of conception are small and not zero.
We're really reaching now, aren't we?
Imagine that I decide to visit the big apple and convince you to show me the local night life. I ply you with liquor, pick up the tab, and at the end of the evening convince you to agree to an oral contract whereby you pay me
160,000 dollars over the next 18 years. Hell, maybe I even get you to sign a bit of paper to that effect. (without witnesses, of course)
What do you do the next morning?
If your smart, you don't worry about paying me a dime,
because no judge in the nation is going to rule that a valid contract. Contract law is clear: when dealing with a sum of that nature, significant proof of both commitment and a rational state of mind is required. A signature on a bit of a paper written after a drunken night on the town does not come close to meeting that standard. Neither does a night of consensual sex. Why should a potential mother be held to a higher standard than a businessman?
Yes, they do somewhat; and that does not happen just when you are married. That happens always. Can you kill your body? Suicide is illegal. Can you walk around nude? Can you always sell your sexual favors to anybody or everybody? These are rights on your body that you hold so dear and are already taken somewhat. So why are you so shocked when I say that someone else may have rights on a woman's womb.
For the same reason that you are shocked when I suggest that such logic gives Lorenna Bobbit the right to chop off her husband's penis. It is the scale of the intrusion that you are willing to justify that baffles me.
Pregnancy and child-birthing are not something that a woman 'gets over.' They produce permanent changes in the woman's body. A woman's figure and breasts will never be the same. Many women tear during delivery, forever affecting sex and urination. Not to mention the lasting psychological affects of being forced to carry an unwanted child.
Similarly, having your penis cut off is a traumatic experience. And one that you seem to feel that no husband should have to suffer. But if you're perfectly fine with forcing a woman to sit back while her body is destroyed from within, why object to allowing the wife to exercise her rights to husband's anatomy? John had his penis re-attached, after all. What's the big fuss about?
If you're going to say "Well, people don't always have the right to control how their body is used," then you need to explain where you draw the line, and why forcing a woman to submit to having her internal organs rearranged is fine but forcing a man to have his penis reattached isn't.
yeah, makes me wonder too. Maybe we do not have much left. Maybe most of it is an illusion of control and posession that we have. Sometime ago I started a thread briefly stating my hypotheses how all the control that we think we have on life maybe just illusory. The thread died owing to lack of interest so I did not feel like expanding on my ideas.
Huh. Must have missed that one.
Are you sure all the rights and control that you think you have are real and not just illusions?
Water's getting a little deep, here, my friend.

But for the purposes of this thread, we're discussing what rights society should give the individual in regards to the control of their body. I believe that it is in societies best interest to give the maximum level of freedom possible; a conviction that inevitably leads me to reject outlawing abortion.