It was a mess. She had a kid, I was like nanny. She wasn't interested in women or men who were good at being women I guess.
I tried to help her with her 4 yo, but the better I got as a nanny, the less she saw the man in me.
So in the end she stopped whole thing, because I had been helping her for 5 months asking nothing in return, just making her feel miserable that she has nothing to give for all the hours I spent babysitting.
I'm strongly encouraged (addicted if you wish) to learning, working out, self-improvement, efficiency raising whole life. My grandpa lived to 96 doing these things. I am inspired by him.