like... this. just this.While talking about the rights of underage women, it's seems overlooked is the question of whether anyone, let alone parents, has the right to force an underage woman to carry a pregnancy to full term?
i mean yea. but i'd like to say, uh, personally i'm not sure a discussion about the nature of democratic legislation (even if the discussion a good one) is useful in this thread; maybe it's just me, but imo this thread has the premise that laws should be a thing, that democracy should be a thing, the question is more what laws are useful for the common good^^^ I'm probably thinking too deeply about a question that seems pretty shallow to begin with, especially in regards to the operative word "force" here. I guess I would say: because that's how laws work. But really you can ask that about anything that government with a police entity behind it can do. They force people to do the things that the people who put them there want.
I honestly think this is missing the point of the discussion: it's about what age for this specific thread. We as a society (with different rules in different States, surely) assign various illogical ages where a person can make those decisions for themselves - just as examples, not meant as equivalent: voting, running for President, drinking alcohol, having consensual sex, renting a car, choosing to keep attending school, buying cigarettes, able to marry, running for Congress, enlisting in the Army, working age - they all have different ages where "we allow" someone to make decisions for themselves. Sometimes Federal, sometimes at the State level.Abortion, like consensual sex, religious and political affiliation, is an immensely personal decision, one that should be left to the individual, not the government.
again i think it's pretty reasonable for someone to freely opt out of having a child if them getting boinked is categorically rape.I honestly think this is missing the point of the discussion: it's about what age for this specific thread. We as a society (with different rules in different States, surely) assign various illogical ages where a person can make those decisions for themselves - just as examples, not meant as equivalent: voting, running for President, drinking alcohol, having consensual sex, renting a car, choosing to keep attending school, buying cigarettes, able to marry, running for Congress, enlisting in the Army, working age - they all have different ages where "we allow" someone to make decisions for themselves. Sometimes Federal, sometimes at the State level.
So clearly, "personal" decisions are not allowed for people deemed "too young" depending on the issue. And the rules vary, by case, by state (& by country, but I'm USian here). To equate them all under one big umbrella is missing the point, IMO, else there would be one Age Of OK For Everything (not that I'd be opposed to such a thing, on principle, but it's not A Thing).
maybe you wanted to refocus the discussion or something. if so sorry i guess. i answered you in the context of the few posts following remorseless'sI mean, sure, but not sure why you quoted me.
ok! so, then, i'm trying to follow here. so remorseless1 talked about abortion as an innately personal decision. then you brought up ability to consent irt the number of ages where consent is a reasonably borked up (although necessary and innately good) number: we decide where people are able to consentually and safely participate in different aspects of life and consumption. sure. but that's kind of abstract on the nature of age and consent. the matter of hand: this thread is about abortion. if we discuss the nature of consent in the abstract, like what does age really mean for driver's licenses, it's kind of off-kilter for the thread.Oh, just wasn't sure why you brought rape into it in regards to my post. I assumed we were talking about various ages of engaging in consensual acts without needing to involve one's parents.
My main point in listing the other (fairly arbitrary) ages of "consent" is that they also involve "immensely personal decision"(s). So I don't find that abortion being an immensely personal decision means that it should be left up to the individual to decide.ok! so, then, i'm trying to follow here. so remorseless1 talked about abortion as an innately personal decision. then you brought up ability to consent irt the number of ages where consent is a reasonably borked up (although necessary and innately good) number: we decide where people are able to consentually and safely participate in different aspects of life and consumption. sure. but that's kind of abstract on the nature of age and consent. the matter of hand: this thread is about abortion. if we discuss the nature of consent in the abstract, like what does age really mean for driver's licenses, it's kind of off-kilter for the thread.
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Just to note, this one is very much not something that even needs to existBefore age Y you can't run for President*, despite that being an immensely personal decision
before you were saying "minors" which will generally mean 18 years old. Are you backing away from that now?reasoning for allowing someone below age Z to make their own decision about abortion to be persuasive (I don't claim to know what Z should be).
I am not, because the age of "minors" (here in the US) varies from state to state, so it's impossible for me to specify an exact age (nor do I feel like "RobAnybody Declares The Age of Minors To Be X" is in my purview). I'm saying I can't possibly say which state is "correct" in their assessment of the term "minor". So here we sometimes have to be generic & just use that term instead.before you were saying "minors" which will generally mean 18 years old. Are you backing away from that now?