Mise
isle of lucy
I agree with you on that one.
I always find it amusing when I see cars on the side of the road broke down. If the driver is a woman she's sitting in the car waiting for assistance to arrive.
If it's a man then they have the hood open and they're looking at the innards as if they might be able to fix something. The truth is that 95%(or more) of men have 0% probability of actually diagnosing and fixing a modern automobile mechanical problem on the side of the road. So why bother? Call a tow.. move on with your life.
I always at least attempt to find out what's going on when there's a problem with my car (or anything else). I know how to check the oil, brake fluid levels, coolant levels, etc, and can follow the instructions in the car's owner guide. Once the list of things that I can do personally to resolve the problem has been exhausted, I'll get someone else's help. Even when the breakdown guy comes out, I still ask him what's going on, and they're typically more than happy to explain it to me (who doesn't get all chatty when someone asks you about their job?). It means that I learn more about my car and can help me diagnose problems in the future. It also means that I know what not to do in the future, if the problem was to do with my driving style.
Additionally, when you call them out and tell them that you've checked the oil, coolant level, battery, leaks, etc, they've already narrowed the problem down, and can come out with more appropriate tools to do the job. Makes their job a lot easier.
You learn by doing, not by sitting in your car waiting for someone else to do something.